Just crossed 5M HH NW with the GOOG rally. Have been feeling that everything seems pointless since a year or two. Now no motivation to continue working at all, not at Google, not in tech, not at anything. But I know this isn’t enough to FIRE in HCOL. Don’t want to leave the Bay Area as friends and f...Read more
Is it just talking to a person? How does it do any good if the underlying root cause still exists? Does it work at all or is it a fuggazzi?
Why has nobody told me this before by Dr Julie Smith.
I have seen 3 therapists till now at different stages in my life. All 3 of them were so ineffective. Youtube motivational videos were better than them. Talking to friends helps better than them. Do they put minimum effort and just drag things after they get to know you have good insurance? Are thera...Read more
I heard that it can, but does anyone have any experience with it?
Doctor wants me to get an MRI to see if there's a physiological issue. And sadly, I hope there's something wrong. Cos I'm tired of my life. Wife hates my guts and blames me for every single issue in our lives. I'm brave enough to fight whatever it is, but at least it'll break this shit situation. ...Read more
Taking care of a child with special needs (and no improvement) for 15+ years. Financially taking care of parents for 20+ years. Given up on marriage. Feel lost and just want some peace in life. Career is not going anywhere, and the worst part is I don't even care anymore. Tried therapy but couldn...Read more
Hello this year I have sufficient balance in my insurance account to cover for any deductible so basically whatever I do this year it will be free for me. I want to maximize opportunity to improve my health. Here’s some conditions I have 1. I’m obese I’m 210 lbs and 5.6. Always tired to work out. H...Read more
I feel like I can't talk to anyone.. I can't talk to people at workplace because god knows who will misunderstand what.. Can't talk to my wife because she is always so busy at work... Can't talk to my mom because she would make me feel guilty and call me out for being weak and how she had done so m...Read more
I grew up eating instant ramen. My family would cook it for breakfast and I loved it. Then I discovered that it’s unhealthy and stopped eating it much. I didn’t have restaurant ramen until I was in my 20’s, maybe after age 25 or so. Restaurant ramen should be more healthy but I’m not sure how mu...Read more
Joining to get the FAANG name in resume and help my career. i am dyslexic but managed to be in Tech sector out of lot of work but still I am inferior to my peers my team at Tekion knew about it and helped me a lot. With the teams support I was able to perform most of the tasks but not sure if Amazon...Read more
Because you tech nerds think just going to the gym will solve your issues. That’s only a problem if you’re fat. You guys need to learn the difference between male gaze and female gaze. “Go to the gym bro” is the worst advice I’ve ever heard and it’s usually by ugly men who have no fashion sense an...Read more
Hi folks, I have a Premera Blue Cross shield health insurance. I want to do a full body check up. Which medical provider is good in Lynwood area?
The quarterback function passes the control flow to a receiver function. The control flow dodges two if statements but gets tackled by a while loop that almost takes it down, but the control flow breaks free after trying without exception before reaching the return statement! Touchdown!!!
My mental health is really messed up (depression, anxiety, etc). I'm about to start a 1 month leave and I don't know why but I feel guilty for doing it. I mean I have legitimate issues but I guess I grew up in a culture where mental health isn't acknowledged and mental issues still seem less legitim...Read more
Got 200 miles on my current shoes - some cheaper Adidas. They’re ok but I’m wondering if I should buy something nicer, because sometimes I feel like my feet and lower legs are taking a beating. Are the foot scans and stuff they do at running stores gimmicky or the real deal?
Two weeks in as a consultant in a new project and I’m already #burnout . For two weeks, I’ve been working from 9am - 2am. I’ve seen at least three junior analyst cry at the amount of workload. It’s my turn now while on commute to office. Triggered by the smallest thing, after working till 4am the n...Read more
He charges me every month for hourly sessions, yet each session he always has like 2 other clients he works with simultaneously so I never get the full attention I require. What’s the best way to approach this without being a d**khead? TC:160 YOE: 2
I have the right BMI, exercise few days a week but cholesterol keeps increasing every year. M 33 TC:210
Have been having so many wrong thoughts lately. Nothing seems to be working for me in terms of mental health. I workout , go on walks hoping I’ll feel better but when I lie down to sleep , all I can think about is how fkd up life is. I try n talk to friends in hope of extracting some positive energy...Read more