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Attractive co-worker on business trip

Intuit EC
Jan 9

We’re both married with kids. We have worked together remotely a little bit but never met in-person. Until today. Surprisingly attractive and interesting. Divulged a bunch of personal details. Very easy to talk to. I should be sleeping and getting over jet lag instead of thinking about this. Help!

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  • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
    Jerk off and go to bed. You’re welcome.
    Jan 93
    • Okta nfc
      ^ This.

      It's better to have lust and lost than to bang, get fired and get a divorce.
      Jan 9
    • This guy knows, he works at Goldman
      Jan 9
    • LinkedIn 紅色貓咪
      I always jerk off before making a decision
      Jan 9
  • Microsoft Dr. Root
    It's ok to bang. What mamma don't know, won't hurt her.
    Jan 93
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      Kids tho
      Edit: they both have kids.
      Jan 9
    • Microsoft Bludgeon
      You shouldn’t be banging your kids
      Jan 9
    • Facebook alt_qq
      The fuck is wrong with you
      Jan 9
  • Amazon tenders
    Ask her if she will do the needful
    Jan 91
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      I have a doubt
      Jan 9
  • rewardStyle gVWr27
    Use your non-dominant hand if you want some strange.
    Jan 90
  • Amazon 1700zulu
    I go on business trips with women I work with (not coworkers but people in other departments) and we just keep it friendly. We are all married, love our partners and want to keep things kosher.

    You can enjoy someone’s company without wanting to jump their bones.

    One other tip: business trip + attractive colleague + sexual frustration = major sex romp when you get home. Welcome home sex is amazing, especially after 5-6+ calendar days away.
    Jan 94
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      This guy fucks.
      Jan 9
    • Amazon 1700zulu
      True—but only my wife.
      Jan 9
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      ...occasionally.
      Jan 9
    • Amazon 1700zulu
      Honestly the spark keeps up for 3-5 weeks (sometimes much longer). And then I go on another business trip. Cycle repeats.
      Jan 9
  • New / Sales
    Lucifer 💋

    NewSales

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    Lucifer 💋more
    Sometimes you just gotta get it out of your system 👄
    7d8
    • Goldman Sachs TC😭
      Relevant Blind name
      7d
    • New / Sales
      Lucifer 💋

      NewSales

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      The only problem is afterwards you’ll have to get the confession out of your system. And then RIP your family.
      7d
    • Goldman Sachs TC😭
      Is family over rated, Lucifer?
      7d
    • New / Sales
      Lucifer 💋

      NewSales

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      Lucifer 💋more
      No. It’s the one thing I don’t mess with. You’re mine until you enter a holy union. Then the temptation is on you, not me.
      7d
    • Amazon Am A Bot
      So, unholy sex is ok before a union but not after. Hmmm. Screen name checks out.
      7d
    • Goldman Sachs TC😭
      I do imagine the devil would be a techie these days.
      7d
    • Intuit EC
      OP
      I agree. Getting it out of your system. But also, don’t agree with confession.
      7d
    • New / Sales
      Lucifer 💋

      NewSales

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      You will eventually do it again if you do it once and after you’ve done it a few times you will confess or your wife will find out and then you will confess. And because you do it you will feel guilty and avoid your wife, and deal with it by cheating more. It’s an interesting road to go down but it always ends up in the same place
      6d
  • Microsoft VjqV71
    Don't forget to lose your job for propositioning her. Women ain't putting up with that shit anymore.
    Jan 94
    • VMware WombatCube
      What if OP is the woman?
      Jan 9
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      Plot twist
      Jan 9
    • Microsoft VjqV71
      Any employee regardless of gender identity, plot twist 2, can be fired for sexual harassment.
      Jan 9
    • Microsoft VjqV71
      Add in a risk of being knocked up or getting VD. Road sex ain't worth it.
      Jan 9
  • Amazon lolsob
    Don't mistake friendly for DTF. Sharing about their life doesn't equal wants to fuck.
    Jan 90
  • Intuit EC
    OP
    I did it all. Hit it there. Then came home and did the same. No regrets (at the moment).
    7d5
    • Goldman Sachs TC😭
      Pics or it didn’t happen 😂
      7d
    • Oracle marriedM
      Don't plan the same kinda trip too often now!
      7d
    • Intuit EC
      OP
      I hear you. I’m exhausted.
      6d
    • New / Sales
      Lucifer 💋

      NewSales

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      Well done
      6d
    • Amazon Am A Bot
      I feel bad for your wife, OP.
      6d
  • Uber / EngoOBb03
    Are you in Vegas?
    Jan 91
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      CES?
      Jan 9
  • Microsoft / EngHellaRSUs
    I don’t think any man died with the regret “I got too much tail”.
    Jan 93
    • Amazon 1700zulu
      There are probably some that did: the ones who died 10-20+ years before their time due to syphilis, gonorrhea or any other STD that shortens life expectancy.
      Jan 9
    • Microsoft / EngHellaRSUs
      Lol good point. Maybe the regret here is didn’t wear a rubber or shouldn’t have slept with dirty women
      Jan 9
    • New stuY17
      EZ E, there is such thing as too much 😂
      Jan 9
  • New / Product
    llluminati

    NewProduct

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    I make stuff and I’m super into it.
    llluminatimore
    Realtalk: the fantast is always 100x better than the reality. It’s never worth it. Imagine how after you and your wife started dating the magic wore off (naturally). If you cheat on your wife not only will the magic wear off with this new person, but you will have destroyed a perfectly good marriage. Go fuck the shit out of your wife dude. And if shes fat tell her to go to the gym.
    Jan 100
  • VMware WombatCube
    Ask "your CPA inside" what a divorce and child support will cost you. Then you are financially armed.
    Emotional heartache and heartbroken are priceless
    Jan 90
  • General Mills / DataBettyCoder
    Simpsons did it. You’re just gonna order room service.
    Jan 90
  • Deloitte / ConsultantFHAs14
    Don’t end up like Jeff, lol.
    Jan 91
    • New / Product
      llluminati

      NewProduct

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      I make stuff and I’m super into it.
      llluminatimore
      YES
      Jan 10
  • IBM / Engkal9880
    It's all fun and games until someone gets pregnant, or until you two get too attached.

    Go watch Obsessed or Unfaithful, that'll get you back on track.
    Jan 91
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      Reminds me a Prime fella named Jeff.
      Jan 9
  • Intel AMtA33
    Recall the best moments with you kids and ask if it's worth risking it.
    Jan 90
  • Intuit EC
    OP
    Never mind. Found someone else
    Jan 112
    • Goldman Sachs TC😭
      Pamela Handerson? 👋
      7d
    • Amazon 1700zulu
      You found someone else to potentially cheat with? OP, just don’t.
      7d
  • New stuY17
    You should, lick it, split it and quit it 😂

    Don’t be stupid, you know what the answer is. If you have to, get a hooker.
    Jan 90
  • Goldman Sachs TC😭
    OP: Was it better, as expected, or worse than the fantasy (as someone says it’s never as good as the fantasy)?

    Would you recommend it?

    Also, was this post an attempt at vice signaling (similar to virtue signaling)?

    Either way, this was such an Alpha post 🦍.
    6d1
    • Intuit EC
      OP
      It was great. I’m still replaying it all in my head. The end result was way better than I could have ever planned. The new target did not have kids—so there, I listened to you guys.

      I’m not sure I recommend it. That’s up to you. This post was really just a snapshot of my real life. We all have our urges and nobody is virtuous. We all want to be bad sometimes and give into temptation. Anybody who says otherwise is fuckin’ lying.

      I’m chalking it up to: I was horny, I saw a good opportunity, and I took it. Don’t know if I have plans to do it again. You’ll be the first to know!

      Alphas live on.
      6d
  • Intel AMtA33
    Went down this path. The results are horrible. Stay off dude.
    Jan 91
    • Goldman Sachs / OtherBFJ
      Same, not at GS. I learned my lesson.
      Jan 9
  • Goldman Sachs TC😭
    OP! 🍿
    Give us an update or GTFO
    7d0
  • Intuit EC
    OP
    I don’t think the friendliness meant DTF. It was the eye-contact. And ignoring everyone else around us.
    Jan 90
  • Microsoft / EngHellaRSUs
    Hit it
    Jan 90
  • Are both of you of same gender?
    7d1
    • Intuit EC
      OP
      No
      6d
  • Apple / Engclaimer
    You are walking on the edge ,better be safe than sorry . You will corrupt your brain by objectifying your co-worker. Also, did she give any specific signs ?
    Jan 90
  • Intuit EC
    OP
    I’m here for 2 more days.
    Jan 90
  • Amazon smNs72
    Jan 90

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