Tech IndustryDec 2, 2019
Newgvfh

Choosing offer

Currently in Austin with my wife. She is starting her PhD at UT in a program she really likes. 2.5 YOE Current Offer A: TC 150k Austin Offer B: TC 250k Bay Area Both are great companies and good teams. What would you choose?

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Amazon ⛷🍻 Dec 2, 2019

Can wife transfer schools?

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gvfh OP Dec 2, 2019

Pretty hard and UT is a great school.

PIMCO uWoK00 Dec 2, 2019

It's not worth living apart for the duration of the program. I'd stay in Austin for her program. Talk it over with her ($250 SF is like $175 Austin).

Ellation swt Dec 2, 2019

What's the comp breakdown?

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gvfh OP Dec 2, 2019

A is all cash. B is like 160 cash and 90 RSU.

Amazon ONT8 Dec 2, 2019

Does company B have office in Austin? Is transferring back to Austin / remote work a possibility? Have u tried negotiating offer A? Other than money, what about the work itself, culture and management style, quality of teammates, future career growth upsides, and exit opportunities?

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gvfh OP Dec 2, 2019

No

New
gvfh OP Dec 2, 2019

Both laid back companies and a lot of opportunities.

Zillow Group R. Savage Dec 2, 2019

Unless you hate your wife you only have one valid option.

New
gvfh OP Dec 2, 2019

Just a offer came up that I didn’t anticipate.

Roku de Vil Dec 2, 2019

Stay with your wife I'd say. Renting a separate unit, especially with Bay area cost of living, will eat up most of that extra 100k.

Ellation swt Dec 2, 2019

Turn down the other offer on good terms, let them know that wife really wants to pursue her Masters at UT and want to be supportive. You'll be able to reach back out when you're ready

Microsoft hrcagb Dec 2, 2019

Choose to be with the girl, companies will always be there - she might not 😉

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gvfh OP Dec 2, 2019

Dude...she’s my wife....not my gf but yeah...happy wife happy life I guess.

Microsoft hrcagb Dec 2, 2019

Well, I don't mean to be rude, but lots of people have lost their wives either through divorce or emotionally. Both are horrible 🤷🏽‍♂️

T-Mobile californi@ Dec 2, 2019

Austin Mexican food is way better in Texas

Ellation swt Dec 2, 2019

That's tex mex not mexican

T-Mobile californi@ Dec 2, 2019

🙄

Cisco Persistant Dec 3, 2019

PhD takes long time to complete. You are not going to want to stay apart for the entire duration of the program anyway. Stay in Austin. UT Austin is an excellent school.