For people who think toxic masculinity doesn’t exist and male entitlement is purely a myth !
I have been looking out jobs recently and today I received this text message ... this creep ( who’s not in my contacts) texts me saying he saw my profile on bumble ( that doesn’t have my phone number on it ) and came across my resume ( that has my number on it ). I have a unique name so not so difficult to figure out it’s the same person. Clearly he has misused professional information ...
what can I do ? What should I do ?
I’ve been actively looking for a job switch so have applied to multiple firms ... I’m in NYC so it’s not so easy to figure it out ...
Here’s how this is connected to “toxic” masculinity
1. Thinking that if he got a piece of information about a woman ( even if it’s from a professional platform ) he can use it to up his dating / getting laid game
2. Not accepting that after right swiping me on a dating app if he hasn’t yet received a match from me it could mean that I’m not interested in him
3. Thinking that all a woman is ( even is she is applying for a job ) nothing but an object of sexual amusement ... not a coworker !!!