Office LifeSep 13, 2019
Microsoftbaskinrobb

How do you hide mental illness at work?

Fellow techies with depression/anxiety/ocd/etc. How do you stay high functioning at work and not get noticed? I can only assume it's a bad idea to let people know considering the stigma and firing culture of the industry. Serious replies or gtfo. TC 230k

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Volvo ascnrdrkly Sep 13, 2019

What about the culture? If you prove that you were fired because of your mental condition, which otherwise didn't affect the quality of your work, you're in for a serious windfall.

Docker SQL_Inject Sep 13, 2019

While what you’re saying is correct, it’s somewhat irrelevant - I think the OP is asking how others continue to contribute at a high level during periods of heightened depression/anxiety/OCD.

Facebook cocosof Sep 13, 2019

you don't. why do you think it's called an illness?

Microsoft RoLF71 Sep 13, 2019

Music.

Facebook cocosof Sep 13, 2019

I just have high functioning autism along with all the other disorders

Microsoft baskinrobb OP Sep 13, 2019

Glad you are high functioning man

VMware doof_s Sep 13, 2019

You take a leave of absence until you get healed. Friend of mine took a 4 month leave of absence from his company. He was at director level and had been having panic attacks at work and in the parking lot. Work related stress can cause that

Facebook cocosof Sep 13, 2019

you can not work for 4 months because of this??

Apple redsmoke Sep 13, 2019

Yep mental illnesses can be brutal.

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Apple redsmoke Sep 13, 2019

Wait trolling or serious?

Apple redsmoke Sep 13, 2019

Isn’t that addictive? Also I heard you get desensitized pretty fast. Have you considered talking to a doc?

Cisco 7oclock Sep 13, 2019

Therapy + meds + paying extra attention to things like sleeping, eating reasonably healthy foods, and being reasonably active. The last set doesn't cure mental illness as some people seem to think, but poor sleep habits, shitty foods, and being sedentary can exacerbate whatever problems are already occurring.

Apple redsmoke Sep 13, 2019

^ this. Get therapy to figure out how bad your problem is and if you need meds take them. Don’t fall for the whole “you can snap out of it BS”

Microsoft baskinrobb OP Sep 13, 2019

Started treatment and meds but the docs say it's going to take a while..

Visa bashish Sep 13, 2019

Be out in nature and learn to disconnect from your phone and all Media.. be active.. do yoga/weights or whatever physical activity you like.. this is not cure for everything but definitely a start in right direction

Snapchat gqkO66 Sep 13, 2019

Put it all into PR comments and request changes

Apple MrMuscles Sep 14, 2019

I don’t necessarily hide it but learn to keep it under control. Sometimes I will leave work after lunch or take a sick day to deal with my issues.

Pure Storage umalmahay Sep 18, 2019

Ketamine treatments have done wonders for my depression. Initially you go through 6 or 8 sessions. Then I go 2 evenings a month. Been off meds over 6 months now and I'd say I'm maintaining much better than ssri or snri's. Only thing that sucks is insurance doesn't cover it and it's about $400 a session.