Misc.Nov 16, 2018
Microsofttime2decid

Indians in your 40s and 50s, if you were 30 right now, would you go back to India?

I'm turning 30 soon, and I need help understanding what I should solve for. "You know what you want" hasn't worked very well in my life - looking back, my younger self had no friggin clue what's important as you grow up - the importance of relationships, not switch jobs so often, chasing shiny startups not knowing it's fake, not study hard enough in the right classes, not take care of fitness better etc... I wonder if and when I should plan my India move. Indians who are in their 40s and 50s, if you were 30 years old today, what would you do? PS: younger folks, we've heard our own opinions like an echo chamber on Blind a million times, I'm real curious to know what 40+ people think... Would be real nice if you could put your age with your answer... TC: 200k, 5yoe since y'all seem insistent

Capital One ETF189 Nov 16, 2018

TC or GTFO

Amazon tyhved Nov 16, 2018

I asked this question everyday and I am of similar age. Been in the same boat. I have decided to go back to india. Of course there will be cons but I think pros matter more for me, i.e. being close to family. Let's see what others feel.

Axtria BlindPts Nov 16, 2018

In the same boat, and planning a move to India in 2019. See you there!

Amazon 123raj Nov 17, 2018

Did this already. Welcome HOME.

Microsoft ESBX12 Nov 16, 2018

Man you have opportunity to grow. Visa doesn't matter. This is a place where no end to grow. Even 40 or 50 have lots of opportunities to grow. But if you always thinking for GC then I have question what you will do different if you will have GC what you can not do now.

Microsoft time2decid OP Nov 16, 2018

Mate my concern is not about GC, let me remove that. Also I don't think you can grow that fast in your 40s mate, by then your work expertise is sort of set - it may turn out valuable, it may turn out average, you never know where destiny takes you.

Microsoft ESBX12 Nov 16, 2018

Age doesn't matter. Matter is what you achieved. I am 41 now and my planing to do MBA in next few years. I want to grow. USA have so many opportunites to grow. And one more thing I am on h1b visa.

Oath Bootlegger Nov 16, 2018

I have a green card. So i am planning to do something on my own here. I want to go back at times but I think in reality this is my home now.

Microsoft time2decid OP Nov 16, 2018

How old are you?

Nvidia bananab Nov 16, 2018

I'm in the same boat

Magic Leap ——- Nov 16, 2018

I am not Indian, but I would go to India and retire. Not in the city but I like villages in northern Himalayan region. I have been taking long breaks between jobs to live there. My previous company allowed remote work so I was there a long time. My only complain is the pollution when you have to visit big cities. Stay in villages and you should be fine.

Amazon Jbeezy Nov 16, 2018

Tell us more. Which kind of towns?

Google blind rox Nov 16, 2018

This is all very romantic.. does not work when/if/once you have kids

Amazon Aovy20 Nov 16, 2018

I am 29 and planning to return to india permanently next month. I think once you hit some financial numbers you should try a few businesses and try to be your own boss. That’s what I am planning to do.

Axtria BlindPts Nov 16, 2018

Are you taking a transfer through Amazon?

Amazon Aovy20 Nov 16, 2018

No. I have been with them for 6 years and feel like I need a break. Giving up my job and planning to pursue my passions and run my own business. Main goal of returning to india is to be with my parents.

Google blind rox Nov 16, 2018

There are tradeoffs always.. you just need to figure out what works for you.. kids change your thinking and priorities. If you have less baggage you can give it a try and see..

Microsoft time2decid OP Nov 16, 2018

If you were 30 again now, and single, would you move back? Why or why not?

Amazon 123raj Nov 17, 2018

Yes we would.

Microsoft O1 Nov 16, 2018

I did that n have come back to the 🇺🇸 after a few years.. I many days keep thinking I shouldn’t have come to the 🇺🇸 in the first place. It is the exposure to surplus and the luxury that has made me lose my peace. After all, 🇺🇸 is not luxurious - you can have a maid, driver and a cook for the chores, parents to take care of your kids, you will be there for your parents whenever they need you. If you are ok to do not so cutting edge, earth shattering technology stuff, please go. It is a great decision and no matter who tells you, stick to it.

Microsoft time2decid OP Nov 16, 2018

Thanks for the detailed response, did you move after marriage? If you'd moved as single person, you think you'd have stayed back?

Microsoft O n Nov 17, 2018

I moved to India when I was single and moved back to usa with a kid..

Amazon IAmJob Nov 16, 2018

Are you married? Have kids?

Microsoft time2decid OP Nov 16, 2018

Not married, no kids

Amazon IAmJob Nov 16, 2018

Decide where you want to get married and raise your kids assuming you want to do that. If you ask me that should drive your decision.