Meeting with a female friend this weekend and going to have dinner in SF. Is it too much to offer to drive her home (Palo Alto)? We don’t have feelings for each other. Yes - it’s too much, ask her to take the Caltrain or Uber. No - it’s fine to drive her home.
And then you need to give her a ride back
Too much. And even if you have no feelings (skeptical if you make this offer), she’ll definitely assume you do to some extent or at the least wouldn’t want to feel like she owed you in any way. Maybe different if you are like super long time super best friends. How is she meeting you? Seems like she would just return in the same way
‘Don’t go out of the way to do a friend a favor, that makes you a beta’. Jesus... It’s perfectly okay to do something nice for no reason.
If the girl was OP’s wife, then he should certainly go to PA and back. That wouldn’t mean he’s “beta”, just that he takes care of his wife. If not, well...the situation is a little different and it all depends on the specific circumstances and situation.
I make girls take the bus to my house for sex. I also make them take it home.
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You won't get any respect being a chauffeur.
It’s a one-way ticket to the friend zone.
You will become her driver. Don’t
Ask yourself, would you do it for a guy friend? If you decided you don’t have feelings for her, then you shouldn’t fear being put in the friend zone, either way.
Make her ride her bike home