I will be 31 very soon. I just feel tired now. I am not married and never had girlfriend or been in a relationship. Any hopes of meeting a lady are zero or negative infinity. I am not a fatso but even exercise does not bring the same joy to me. Also, stuck on h1b that I can't simply take a break and come back later. I told my manager about being burned out and he laughs. If I change teams all my hard work is in vain and I have to be in the same rut. There must be a way out but I don't see it.
Don't do anything drastic just take a vacation to somewhere remote, stay in a hostel where you can meet random people, embrace nature, have a few drinks and just remember that we're all just on a giant, spinning piece of iron (and other stuff).
Earth is a spinning RSU
You need to fuck.
It never gets any easier. Sorry
Where are you located?
just chill man. Eat the flesh leave the bones.
Have you checked if you are vitamin b12 or d deficient?
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This actually made a huge difference for me
When you get tired, think about all the RSUs. It will make you happy again. Just get more RSU and you will love life
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Give arranged marriage a try?
First off, I wouldn't put so much weight in having a girlfriend. The more you care about it, the less likely it'll happen. Try just going out to social events and letting it happen. Second, it sounds like your boss and your job suck big time. I'd try to find something new if you aren't enjoying it. It doesn't make all of your hard work go out the window. Don't worry so much about the value you bring to the company. The company doesn't give a shit about you. They care about themselves. Worry about what value the company provides you and extract as much as possible. I don't have the same problems as you exactly, but I do have some of the same feelings you do at a younger age. Always happy to talk and offer pointers. Keep your head up and realize that you are in the elite of tech workers worldwide. This is an impressive accomplishment eventhough you may feel like shit right now.