Is it really that bad, especially compared to like NYC, LA, Chicago? A friend moved to Seattle from nyc, and he is depressed because it's so bad. Planning on leaving once he hits his 1 year mark.
How is it compared to SF/SJ area?
Compared to NYC? Hahahhahahahahahahahahahaahahahahah you are fucked.
+1 to the number of hahas
I keep hearing this about Seattle. Does tinder just not work there ?
Problem with tinder in Seattle is that 5s Think their 8s that believe they should be matching with 8-10s. It's a systemic issue so there's no point. You'll always be boxing below your weight class and the boxer your with thinks your boxing above. That's the disconnect.
Seriously you are one of the problems.
Yeh it's pretty awful. I'm from NYC and holy shit the dating scene is night and day
Yeah my friend did very well in nyc. Lot of matches in online apps, 1-2 dates per week with different women. In Seattle he's getting very few matches, and they end up ghosting or flaking. He's already talking to recruiters and trying to get back to nyc. He said Seattle is hell.
Lol that pretty much describes me altho I haven't quite started talking to recruiters yet but maybe in a few months
Um guys it work both ways. Men who are 3's think they are 8's and act like complete morons on dates. Walk is to our car, pay for our drink, pick a restaurant, offer to be a gentleman, don't order the most expensive whiskey and split the bill. Get over yourselves.
Why should they pay for your drink? You do realize that it contradicts your order telling men to get over themselves, don't you?
No, I do not see the conflict. Guys who are humble and gracious from the Midwest know they are not supposed to be the center of attention and in return will get our tenderness, feminine nature, and support. As well as our other charms. Furthermore I already get paid less than a man and have higher expenses and you cannot buy us a drink? π
Lol, same here! also considering jump ship and move to nyc after i vest my second chunk of on-hire stock. Sadly no engineering roles for msft in nyc
I'm not muscular or tall but I didn't have a problem getting 2-3 attractive tinder dates per week in Seattle. I like quirky women though, not cheerleader types. I also get dates/friends just by talking to random people.
what? 5's 3's 8's 10's ? what do they all mean?
Everyone whining should screencap their Tinder profile and we'll offer advice why it isn't working. π
Yea it's really that bad. 5s think they're 8s.