Shaadi.com and arranged marriages can go to hell......
So, talking to a few girls for marriage. Yes arranged.
So parents get to know each other first. Like on the phone. Then I usually text the girl and arrange a video call or meet in person if she's in the US.
My first question is - "what are you looking for in your partner?". 95% of the responses I get are childish. I want someone who is well settled, well groomed, should earn at least 30 lac per annum and the likes.
What I'm looking for is - my ambitions are such and such. I want a partner with similar goals or supportive of my goals so we support each other and achieve them.
Is this too much to ask? I've rejected about 16 girls. My parents say I'm too picky and pressurize me.
Am I wrong? Do such girls even exist? I'm not an atm. I'll grow old and look ugly eventually. Why is everyone so superficial?
Folks with arranged marriage, please pitch in.