If you had the choice/final decision, where spouce and two children are living in the same home with you, would you rather: (For the purposes of this poll, it is soley YOUR decision.)
Why does text have spouce but poll options have spouse ?
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Their choice obv, but optimal depends on how much TC spouse is pulling. Low TC, probably better quality of life if spouse stays home. High TC, spouse should work, and we can hire help to make sure work around the house is being done and kids are not being neglected.
Having a happy and engaged spouse is paramount, regardless of what life path they choose. It might change through the phases of life as well.
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Fully depends how much money is being left on the table with staying home.
Let her do whatever she's better at. Not all moms are good at raising kids at home. However make sure the kids are not neglected (junk food, iPads all days etc...) And that means you gotta spend significant time or money on the kids, no way around that.
Why do people feel the need to get other ppls input on their own choices. Are you that needy. Low self esteem. Live your life on social media. Doesnβt fkn matter. Do what works in your life. Or get a life and do the same
Imo blind is a better alternative than asking parents for input on their own marriage
Working spouse with income that is shared with me, but I donβt live with them in the house but rather recover in our villa on Caribbeans.
their decision, not mine
Duh! What kind of spouse would you personally prefer? Not hard to understand!
duh! either is equally as fine for me, not hard to understand! π πππ