Condoms.
One of the parents should stay home. Advantage, you actually raise your child but the one staying home will be exhausted and you will lose income because you will only have one person working.
Diversify. Grandparents 1 to 2 days a week (so they don't get too spoiled). Daycare 2-3 days a week so they can experience social interactions at a young age but aren't entirely raised by an external system. Try hard to get one of the parents to have a weekday off, even if it means working extra on the side. Ideally, one parent is off one day with the kids, the other is off a different day, and then (if possible) you both share a day off together. That leaves 4 days to split between daycare and grandparents. This is what we do. YMMV.
We dont have a luxary of having grandparents close to us , but thanks for the tip
Iloveyou, just reading this schedule makes me tired.
Grandparents. The only way to get the pampering for all the babies in the house.