Women on shy guys
Women of blind, what do you think about shy and reserved guys? Like someone who’s quiet initially and takes time to get comfortable with new people. Not an extrovert or flamboyant
Blind is turning into Quora 🤷🏻♂️
Well, I married one even though I’m a flamboyant extrovert type, so I guess they’re ok. 😘 I do more social activities than he does, and both of us are ok with that. (As the responder above notes, this is different from confidence — being quiet and introverted is fine, but lacking confidence is not great.)
How did you guys meet?
I read this in a bubbly loud voice
I find shy guys to be kind of annoying. For example, if you go out on a date with a girl, and you have nothing to say and can’t carry a conversation, that’s no fun. My suggestion for shy guys is to craft a list of conversational topics or questions you can ask your dates in an attempt to get to know them. I think this will also help with your shyness.
Is it ok to leave the list out in the open during the date?
personally i use the wristband playbook like you see quarterbacks using
I think they are cool
If you’re asking this question, you almost certainly lack confidence, and no one likes insecurity
Take a tantra class
It seems women, in general, like reserved men as much as less reserved ones
Unless you’re publicly rich or extremely good looking, being shy is your own cockblock. Make a real effort to not be shy. Talk to old ladies and be pleasant to everyone. Who knows you might like it.
Shy is like stupid.
Except you can’t fix stupid.
Shy (as in quiet and reserved) is not the problem. Lack of confidence is. The two traits are correlated but distinct. A guy can be reserved but very self confident.
Not always true. I met assholes who are loud and talkative but extremely insecure as they put others down to feel good about themselves. :) nothing to do with confidence on how loud they are.