I’m not attractive to her at all but she is clearly trying to initiate when I’m a married man. She is from Vietnam. I know Blind can afford Au Pair so wonder if you experienced similar Wife is Japanese and I’m American. 2 kids under 4
What is au pair?
Ask your wife if she’s ok making your relationship a très pair
so your wife knows and you’ve contacted the agency…. fire her and hire a local babysitter until you can find a new one honestly depending on the needs of your kids, just hire a high schooler or college student to help and let your wife do most of the interactions.
I was thinking of getting an au pair. Any tips on how to structure the contract for the extra marital sex that eventually will happen? Does that count as vacation time?
Very common. Up to you what to do, but I would get rid of her/fire her before she claims sexual harassment or worse. Those girls are known for "stealing" husbands.
Set boundaries, tell her nah. Or find another au pair I'd tell your wife if it continues
Yeah already did and we plan to contact agency but I thought it was a meme about homewreckers