California exodus, but not for me?

I'm seeing continued articles talking about people leaving California for other states. The two biggest arguments I see are taxes and cost of living in terms of housing. I moved from NYC to LA 4 years ago. I was used to NYC cost of living so the change wasn't that crazy. The biggest difference was traffic, but I learned the patterns and best times to travel. Also my wife and I don't have kids. Therefore I'm speaking in terms that perspective. I think kids change the game a lot. These are definitely good reasons to move but California also has a lot of benefits that I really enjoy and why I'm not moving just yet, unless I can find a place that can match California lifestyle. My Background: Born and raised in NYC until middle school. Moved to a small town upstate NY from middle to high school. came back to the NYC every summer until University. University in NYC. started my early career in NYC currently a software engineer Reasons why I'm staying - 1. the active lifestyle. there is no shortage of things to do outside. I'm an active surfer, rock climber, and hiker. The options located around me are many. I never really get board of having fun. I would say unless I'm working, I'm mainly outside enjoying life. 2. The food scene here is amazing. So many different options. I was used to this in NYC and loved it while I lived there. LA has the same variety of options just a little harder to get to in terms of driving. 3. The weather! if you live more to the coast the weather is great in LA. The dry climate is honestly so nice. Humid summers in the east coast sucked. and cold winters were not fun for 3-4 months out the year. 4. National Parks - California has some of the most beautiful nature in the united states. We go to a national park at least once a month. Again this fits our lifestyle since we are active people but just to have the option of exploring these parks often is so nice. 5. The people. this is hit or miss for some folks. I was lucky enough to build a good community around me that are reliable. Many people said that people in LA are "fake". I have definitely met those types of people while living here but for the most part most of my friends are reliable and not trying to impress or talk themselves up. funny enough majority of my friends that I made here all moved from different places as well. 6. cost of living? this is definitely a downside but again I'm ok with paying the high prices for access to things that I really enjoy. I'm also very used to high prices from NYC, so not a huge shock for me. Would love to hear other peoples thoughts on this :) also if you don't agree I would love to get your take as well. I think people leaving California for financial reasons is a solid choice but for me the outdoor lifestyle that LA/California has to offer is hard to find in the US. #misc #softwareengineer #move #tech