Misc.May 8, 2022

Car Advice

I’m planning on buying a car after closing on a condo. I have a wife and a young toddler and we are planning on having another next year. We live in NYC: the wealthier and more spacious part of Bronx. We anticipate having parking in the condo garage. We see cars as primarily a utility, I have limited driving experience, and my wife hates driving (and feels like her skills are subpar). I prioritize safety and reliability: I don’t want to take a lot of time away from family and work to deal with repairs and I want everyone safe. I don’t mind spending more for comfort and great technology. I want enough space to take the kids on monthly trips to parks and restaurants in the outer boroughs, upstate NYC, and Jersey. I also want my wife in a bigger and safer car as buffer for her subpar driving skills. I know very little about cars other than Toyotas are reliable. I have $50-60k that I’m willing to burn on an all cash purchase but if I can get a low interest rate, I’ll borrow. Our credits scores are outstanding, we have zero debt, and +2 years of savings, so I’m only worried about market forces harming our low interest rate prospects. We’re currently saving $10-13k a month, depending on how nicely the stock market is treating my company, so we have buffer for comfortably absorbing a monthly payment. A car would have to exceed our expectations on everything described above for us to pay more than $60-70k. I’m thinking of getting a hybrid 2020-22 Toyota Highlander. What other cars should I be looking at? Also, there is big issue of theft of catalytic converters, especially Hondas, in my area, so I’d like to avoid those unless there’s a really compelling reason to get one. #cars #car #nyc #driving

Square ymQh44 May 8, 2022

Who cares about your vanilla ass car.

Stitch Fix OVmr22 OP May 8, 2022

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matadoro May 8, 2022

Please do not put your wife with self-proclaimed subpar driving skills behind the wheels of a big ol SUV. After she mows down a pedestrian, you can kiss your assets goodbye. All of them. It sounds like you neither need a car nor want a car. Rent a car for those monthly trips.

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JFqs12 May 8, 2022

Jesus. Over the top.

Stitch Fix OVmr22 OP May 8, 2022

From my observation of my wife’s driving, her problem is she’s overly cautious and hesitant. I’m much more worried about her getting rear ended by another car than mowing over a pedestrian. We definitely need a car. Wrangling two kids in the NYC subway isn’t sustainable. I asked multiple couples about this, including very frugal ones, and all of them recommended getting a car.

Amazon asdfasdfg May 8, 2022

Toyota's can have a big markup on them due to chip shortages and high demand for them so make sure to call around different dealerships and ask how much they're selling it for. Basically, don't think MSRP is going to accurately reflect how much you'll pay for a car. Also, might not be a great idea to buy a big ass SUV in NY. Parking is going to be a b*tch. And fuel is especially expensive these days. And you can get a better idea about how the cars compare in 2022, check US News rankings and see how they rated SUVs, sedans, etc.

Amazon yxwd37 May 8, 2022

Buy a shitty ass used car. You live in NYC and people think parallel parking means backing up until you hit the car behind you and then pulling forward until you hit the car in front of you.

Stitch Fix OVmr22 OP May 8, 2022

Any advice on spotting a reliable used car? I don’t mind using those ugly bummer protectors that’s common in NYC. I’m buying new more for reliability, not aesthetics.

Amazon yxwd37 May 8, 2022

Bumper protectors are just a pain and will do little to protect your car. In terms of finding a good used car, you can start with certified, but they'll be more expensive. If you're looking in the private market I'd limit my search to cars no older than 7 years and also have a used car inspection done before purchase.

Microsoft dontH8 May 8, 2022

I was scrolling up and down to see where you wrote your & your wife's TC

Stitch Fix OVmr22 OP May 8, 2022

;) $415k for me

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JFqs12 May 8, 2022

I didn't know Stitch Fix is a public company. The stock has lost 90% of its value in the last year?!? I'm so sorry. My wife has a Honda Fit and it's been great with two kids, also perfect for a city.

Stitch Fix OVmr22 OP May 8, 2022

I thought about Hondas but thieves are brutalizing them in NYC.

Microsoft trehgr May 8, 2022

I think a Toyota Highlander is the perfect choice for a family. Very reliable and spacious. It’s a little on the larger side so make sure you and your wife are comfortable driving/parking in the city where it can sometimes be a tight squeeze. A Toyota Rav could be a a good compromise if you’re looking for something that’s easier to get around in the city

Qualtrics mnHB53 May 8, 2022

Tcgtfo

JPMorgan Chase scent May 8, 2022

TC ugly

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rqpz53 May 8, 2022

Kia Sorento with a 3rd row.