I need advice. My girl friend brought me to a fancy French restaurant. IPAID for everthing. I was so excited. I took pics of the food and sent them to my mom. I was on my phone probably a total of 13 minutes the entire 1.5 hours we were there. I wasn't scrolling through Instagram or anything. I wasn't on my phone when the server took the order. GF goes "how do I politely tell you to get off your phone?". I told her I was sorry and was just showing my mom the food and she was right. The check came. And she instantly got in a mood. I asked what was wrong and she said "well I'm upset you were on your phone at a 200 dollar dinner". I paid for all. And I got quiet and told her I was sorry and that I literally was only briefly on it. SHe went on to tell me how embarrassing it was for her how disrespectful it was, and I should "know better". I instantly withdrew. Got quiet. Then she told me it ruined the night for her. I told her I was sorry. I internalized it and I think in my head she thinks I'm some uncultured country bumpkin with no manners. It made me feel so bad. And then for her to mention how I was an embarrassment. Then she said because I was crying I was playing the victim. But I just resorted to anger because I felt attacked. Now I just want to end things. How do I stop being so upset so easily about this stuff ? #meta Meta #E6. SWE 1.5 million stock grant
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Dump her. It’s childish and stupid. Waste of time.
Lol showing mom pictures of the food! You couldn’t wait to go home. It is disrespectful though.
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Break up. If you’re paying, it doesn’t matter if it’s Wendy’s or a 200 dollar restaurant. You do you bro.
It will only get worse from here on…. Escape while you can
Man the fuck up
Dude, run! This is the definition of gaslighting.
This might be Johnny Depp retelling his experiences. Lmao.
Narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder. YouTube them and see if it resonates with your experience in this relationship.
Are you talking about the girl or about @op?
The girl
Put ya phone down
Not if he’s paying.
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I can never date a person that rude. Politeness yet direct is an attractive trait