Girl I just started dating a week ago just dumped me AMA
What a Christmas present. I don’t understand women. She says I was being too forward, meanwhile I thought she was. We kissed on first date, she initiates texts with me every fucking day even when I try to ignore her, somehow I figured matching her energy since she wasn’t afraid to show she was interested in me. I tried not to pressure her. Now she says I’m being too forward whereas I was the one trying to slow things down. Women are actually much harder to figure than leetcode hard. TC: shit
Do you know why?
She says I was taking things too fast meanwhile I thought the same about her. She was always texting me & I didn’t like to ignore her. Now it’s me that’s that is being forward. I don’t understand women
Nobody understands women - FTFY
How are you feeling ✨?
Like shit, considering I’m far away from family on Christmas Day. Easily the worst Christmas in my life
This Christmas you gave your heart but the very next week she gave it away. Next year to save you from tears, you give it to someone special !!
Srsly I can't with this Internet-winning shit right here.
Go find a new one, it takes 5 minutes to make a Tinder account.
Nice guys finish last. Be a jerk, play hard to get, ignore her texts and take hours to respond. This is how you get girls. People want what they can’t have.
Yeah partially true. If you do too much girls think you are sticky.
That's just bullshit. Playing hard to get and waiting to respond is just an annoying inconvenience for both sides.
You sound upset, though you say you ignored her. Trust me, men are hard to figure out too.
I tried to when she keeps texting me because I didn’t want to seem needy.
So you basically weren't interested in her, were ignoring her and just reciprocated because she showed interest? I think she figured this out.
She's not worth it and your leetcode skills. Probably just wants some space
Its not worth trying to figure out. It could be anything. Maybe it wasnt even you. Also you cant get "dumped" after 1 week
I once went on a few dates with an Indian guy who was hystrionically crying on the phone 30 min about my dumping him after going on three - totally platonic - dates, after which I decided I wasn't interested. I don't know why some guys think you've signed a job offer with them, when you're just doing the first or second phone screen.
Did you feel the need to mention the guy is Indian because you want to highlight your preference against Indians?
She sounds crazy. You probably dodged a bullet.
At least it was early on, easier to move on