I just joined Salesforce and have been on ramp so have had little to nothing to do besides training the past 4 weeks. This amounts to be 1-2 meetings a day and some trailhead trainings. I probably am working max 2-3 hours a day. She’s a teacher working 10 hours a day making 25% of my total comp so I understand her jealousy/anger but also I’m just not staffed on a project right now so let me enjoy my time off!!!! Anyone else deal with jealous S/Os when project life isn’t that busy? I know I’m very fortunate and lucky to have this wlb but this is also what I’ve chosen for my career so I can’t really help it. Tc $210k, 5 yoe
Sad life
Ain't happening at Amazon
My SO is also a teacher and complains about the diff in WLB. I can't really argue with her. She has 10 YOE and a Masters and makes 60k. I once gave her the "well I thought that was kinda a known thing when you decided to become a teacher?" Would not recommend that approach.
Lol the truth hurts
HAHA have definitely gone down that road with her. “You know what you were getting into right?“ Definitely doesn’t help. She’s actually actively interviewing for recruiting roles so hopefully she can’t complain much longer!
Maybe let her be in charge and channel that anger onto your cheeks.
Butt cheeks?
Sorry to say this, she either figures out her emotions (with psychotherapy even) and stops being toxic to you or you drop her man. You deserve better than this, I promise. You should not be made to feel bad for designing your life better
Ditch the girlfriend. If she can't be happy for your good fortune then what will life forever together be like? Find someone who celebrates with you when life is good, even if it's just good for you.
Yes it is grocery store. For every 1 girl there are 100 guys DMing her on tinder, insta,Fb and now even LinkedIn lol
Instead of complaining about your gf on the internet, help her move into tech. Something like technical trainer, curriculum designer, onboarding PM, are all things tech companies need and would consider someone with a teaching degree and experience.
This is so trash. He’s talking about his partner or his daughter!! Why should he bear the full responsibility of figuring her life out? Why would anyone in their right mind want to babysit their partner?
Just venting to get opinions. She is actively interviewing for tech recruiter roles, onto her final interviews today. I think she won’t be able to complain much longer lol
Not anymore. My ex was kind of like this and her jealousy was just a symptom of her general negativity and worldview that life should be fair and just. I eventually ended up dumping her because her attitude was very draining and never improved even after talking things through many times over multiple years.
It does get draining and is a vibe kill every time.
Have you tried telling her that it's a vibe killer?
Doesn’t she have few months of vacations per year?
Could you imagine a friend projecting the same feelings as your SO? That’s not what I call a friend, yet alone SO.
Better than her being an swe complaining about you making 🥜
Lmaooo
Lmao...Facts.