How much household work do men with a non working wife do ?
I do all the things my wife doesn't do, handy man shit around the house, vehicle maintenance, etc. Not sure why you don't have any of that listed in your poll.
If she is taking care of the kids, that counts as work.
Taking care of kids is not work??
OP seems to think so. He describes his wife as not working, but two of the choices includes kids.
Emotional labor should be included. The book fair play life talks about how men pride on helping with physical chores and women take on the emotional labor almost completely. This is also why they feel so drained.
My wife doesn’t work but still pitch in quite a bit when I’m not working