Misc.Apr 18, 2018
Adobewarrior1

How did you handle death of your people back home?

Experiencing this time and again. I am crippled and unable to do anything about it (its too late for me to leave the States and head home)

Nvidia junta Apr 18, 2018

Sorry for your loss. Be strong.

Microsoft Fgtd12 Apr 18, 2018

You can and should still go.

Tesla fxma40 Apr 18, 2018

Sorry for your loss, It might be very helpful to get back and spend sometime with other loved ones of yours and together celebrate the life and memories of your loss. Don’t go through this pain on your own , it is a very difficult phase :(

Amazon pPUp11 Apr 18, 2018

If you can, visiting is a must. Even if you do not go for a happy occasion is OK but going at the tough time and comforting the near and dear will help them and you too in long run

Amazon Foods Apr 18, 2018

Consider seeing a grief counselor or therapist

Google tcCd20 Apr 18, 2018

Is this due to a war in your home country? Or is your immigration status preventing you from going back to be close to family after someone dies?

Adobe warrior1 OP Apr 19, 2018

Immigration status

Google tcCd20 Apr 19, 2018

Sorry to hear that. In such situation i imagine the hardest part is not being able to help the remaining family. Since you can't personally travel to support loved ones maybe you can try some other options to support them. Maybe helping the remaining family financially. Or sending immediate family like wife or child in your place. Keeping frequent contact through video chat. Frequent phone calls and being there. Also don't forget about yourself, you need to release the stress. Sports and gym are great. Yoga too. Find something to make your peace. At the end of the day this is out of your control so focus on what you can control instead. Sorry for your losses.

Amazon Nzoogler Apr 18, 2018

Hey nothing to add but hope you find peace soon.

Facebook cynical.ly Apr 18, 2018

I'm sorry for your situation. This is something I dread too :-(

Apple Gg56fh Apr 18, 2018

Consider frequent trips or a short leave of absence from work to spend time with those who matter. Time is the only thing you’ll never get back.

Google MzIJ73 Apr 18, 2018

Not sure about adobe's policies, but if you get bereavement leave then use it. Even if you aren't able to visit, use the time to cope and to reflect on your loved one (s) and to communicate with family.