Hi guys, I just wanted to share my story here. Today, I sent HR an email mentioned that the way the manager is speaking to me makes me feel like I'm being abused vertally and so uncomfortable. HR then reached out to her to tell her to address the issue with me. She then schelduled an 1v1 with me. During the call, we argued alot. I know it's unprofessional but I cant stand it any longer. More context here: She humiliated me in front of colleages. Also, alot of times she tried to blame me for others mistakes or her mistakes. She tagged me and complained on anything about me on team chat. Thoughts? tc: 380k Yoe: 4
PIP soon. You have to realize that it's your job to make your managers life easier. If you're not doing that, you're boned
Gotta manage them managers
True. My #delusionkumar manager piped me due to a similar reason. Though I had never done anything so dramatic. Only politely mentioned to him that ever PM should have a roadmap instead of working on assigned projects.
HR sounds useless. You have a target on your back now, better transfer.
They did what they were supposed to do.
Relaying the message? OP could go straight to manager then.
😳...omg ...u shud have thought about it before. Btw: which part of the world your manager is from?
Does that even matter?
It matters because the verbal war continues even after HR follows up - as per OP.
Same here at msft. My 1 on 1s are just arguments. You are not alone with shitty managers
How do you deal with that? Emotionally and mentally!
To conquer the enemy without resorting to war is the most desirable. The highest form of generalship is to conquer the enemy by strategy.
That's not a general. Thats a politician.
The art of war for the uneducated.
Good job. Enough of this slavery BS in tech.
Please stop comparing making hundreds of thousands of dollars to any form of slavery. You sound like a fool. Everyone in every industry has a hard time standing up to their boss. Tech is not unique
@nextdoor ok Rajesh continue liking a$$.
Fuck such managers, trust me they can’t put you on pip unless you have pissed your teammates too. Pissing off manager is ok, just don’t mess with teammates. Make sure they are in your side. -AWS Manager
Which team at AWS? I've heard S3 managers and VPs are total sadists. Not sure about other teams.
They can put you on focus easily getting bs evidence
start interviewing
You’re in focus starting from last week.
Pip
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Actually, i was pipped for the same reason. Super unprofessional manager. The manager used to shout in meetings.