Bro wtf is this I was talking to 2 girls before getting laid off, and things were going well. After I get laid off, canceling dates and slowly they both drifted away without a proper conversation. On the dating apps, good convos but as soon as I mention I was laid off responses stop. Going on a date with a girl tomorrow but haven't told her im laid off. Wtf is this??? Is that all we're worth?? Lose your job and bye bye? So discouraging to even think about getting married knowing this FYI I'm from India and only dating Indian girls. Perhaps I need to diversify, maybe an Indian girl thing???? It's infuriating, having to deal with this on top of visa stress
Where are you in us? Also women expect you to pay so they might hv ghosted
I didn't ever say I was financially hurting lol I even mentioned if it wasn't for visa I would be I would take a few months off....
Well it's good that you dodged a bullet with those people.
It's not just those 2, after that EVERY convo I had on the apps ended like this(5-10) I have 2 dates lined up and for both I haven't told them about being laid off and not planning on telling them either
Are you holding out till you tap some ass or what
Laid off but can’t get laid
I'm about to now that I've stopped telling them
You cant get laid with indian women easily. Even though a lot of westernization has happened around us still women prefer this after marriage. I am not saying they DONT but they prefer. OP the reason the ghosting happens is the mindset of the girls are in terms of getting married and settled. I do disagree with the short term thoughts they have of you not having job temporarily. They should think long term incase the reason for ghosting is actually your job. So dont feel bad you are getting ghosted. You are doing your thing and they are doing theirs.
Just focus on finding a new job to handle the visa situation. Later, you can spend time finding the correct type of girl.
I'm notnworried about finding a girl. I'm talking about how they trwt you if you lose your job, makes me feel like that's all I am to them
Wow who would have thought. Getting laid off impacts getting laid.
Well that's comforting to hear
New, did your balls turn into empty sacs that day?
No offense, but why would you continue going out on dates before getting a job again? For some girls, it may create an impression that you are still prioritizing dating when all of your time and effort should ideally be focused on finding a job instead.
... why can't I go on a date in a week if I'm preparing and interviewing otherwise? It's not like I can't do anything but study now But yeah I can see that might be the way they think
The only way to know you’ve found a good girl is to find someone who is independently successful. Otherwise there’s always a risk they’re in it just because you have money. Not because of the person you are
The trash took themselves out.
Welcome to reality. Men are loved conditionally the sooner you understand this the better it’ll be for you. Women look for stability and going by the number of options they have they’ll always go for the least risky one. Don’t even get me started on feminism which is one of the most flawed ideologies ever.. it’s just too hypocritical to be even taken seriously.
They were in it just for some free furniture
Rip
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