Hi Folks. My fiancée has moved to her home country a couple of months ago due to her visa expiration. Being away from her in a long distance is kind of depressing. Life has been pretty boring on my end and on her end as well, and I’m at loss of topics to keep up the communication. Any topic that starts kind of ends in a short time. Running out of ideas, I have been forwarding her memes on Instagram and it kind of feels awkward since topics have dwindled down. She initiates a few topics most of the times and comments on it, sometimes it gets frustrating and I’m kind of taking it out on her only to end up regretting in a few hours and apologizing, realizing her comments were right in the first place. She is the best thing that happened to me and I am afraid I may lose her. Anyone who has been in a long distance, any advice on keeping up the communication very healthy, very fresh will really help me out. Thanks a lot. TC: 75k Yoe: 2 yrs #longdistance #relationship #mentalhealth
Marry her
What country? If it's Canada and you live in Seattle, can visit her on the regular
She is in India and I’m in the US.
Try to travel back and forth as much as you can. Scheduled calls and try to do things together.
Things together like what? We are in 12 hours different time zones. Like I said, scheduling calls and talking has become dry of topics.
You don’t have any common interests/hobbies? Just talk about those, if you can’t find things you both are interested in, then maybe you should just not get married
Where are you from and where is she/he from?
We both are from India. I’m in the US on work visa and she had to go back to India owing to F1 expiry
Put a ring on it if you think she's the one.
*on it
Depends on how kinky they are, I guess. Fixed.
Act before reality sets in.
True. I know I should act, but not sure what to do. Appreciate a direction.
k-1 visa
Make short/long term plans (travel, marriage) and have something for both of you to look forward to. Good luck.
Why did you let her leave if you've already proposed? You could have done a courthouse ceremony.
Marry and get her back here on dependent visa
I can do that. Unavailability of visa slots in the near future is acting against it. I also don’t want her to have a career break as she wouldn’t be able to work once she comes back. It’s that situation.
Spousal visa isn’t just a given? I find that quite surprising I think there is even a fiancé visa that lets them travel to the USA to get married are you not a citizen yourself? If so I’m not sure about those kind of visas then, but you might want to check to see