Misc.Dec 20, 2019
NewFedaykin

Motivation to Look

Adding this because the post in which a user was seeking help with motivation was treated a bit rudely and has subsequently been taken down (while I was typing this, which was meant as a comment). That said, I hope that OP will se this and that it might help others as well. Please feel free to add tips, as this is merely a starter list of ways to motivate yourself to look for a new position: ———————— Don’t listen to these guys saying you’re already comfortable in your current position. You’re not or you wouldn’t have asked for advice. Motivation doesn’t work the same way for everyone and I, for one, can relate. Here’s what I’m doing and what I suggest: Write down the reasons you want to leave. Post then on your mirror where you get ready in the morning as daily reminders. If that location doesn’t work for you, post them on your home computer screen, a little in the way so they’re annoying and cannot be ignored. Set tiny goals: > today I will update my resume intro (only!) > tomorrow I will write a list of five brands I like > this weekend I will find one project I feel is portfolio worthy > ...etc. Set aside regular, recurring, committed time to the effort. Even if it’s just researching companies or networking on LinkedIn with all those people you should have kept in touch with and now you need. Whatever amount of time you can commit to starting with, start there. Even if it’s five minutes a day. Join your alumni groups on LinkedIn and if they’re not posting positions, post a thoughtful question that you expect will lead to responses. Once the conversation is going, mention that you’re looking. This is not only for those in the conversation but also those who will see it in the group feed later as well. I like LinkedIn’s paid career search but I don’t know that it’s necessary. That said, use LinkedIn to your advantage! Easy first step: filter jobs by “easy apply” ONLY (among the career-specific parameters that are relevant for you) and apply like mad. These are a few mins of reading and a few clicks each to apply. Set some of your tiny goals to get five of these done in a day. Later see if you can push yourself to ten because they’re so easy. >> NOTE: the value in applying this way is *not* in expecting to land the position! The value is in getting on the radar of the recruiters behind these posts, as many times that’s who’s running it. And by applying you’re adding to their list of qualified candidates *for positions like that one.* You know what motivates you best in your life. Use that against yourself and FORCE the issue. Get tough! Literally stand in front of your bathroom mirror and tell yourself to get your shit together. Seriously. Finally: try to change one habit a week. Make sure it’s something that contributes to this effort and it can start with some of the items above. You need rituals, habits, and to develop a natural inclination to do this. That takes a bit of time but does develop and does improve. I’m proud of you. You’ve taken an important second step. The first was deciding to leave. The second was asking for advice among peers. That shows progress and you need to give yourself credit for that! One step at a time. I believe you can do it. You need to believe that too. Go get ‘em!

This comment was deleted by the original commenter.
Visa 🤔 whoami Dec 20, 2019

Totally agree. Great post!

TripAdvisor blindny Dec 20, 2019

Thank you for posting it! This helped me today

Tata Consultancy Services Dsurvivor Dec 20, 2019

Thanks for the motivating post. I am new grad and currently working as a contractor but i am very much stressed out because my manager thinks I am not performing well. I am feeling depressed and tensed because he throws random stuff to me to work on and I have no clue how to go ahead with that without help. He expects that i should know and understand stuff and do the task without any help. Every day I struggle. I want to get out but i dont feel motivated to prepare for coding interview. I feel stuck and lost. OP I hope you can help. me with some advice on this. thanks.

Accenture 👶🏽👦🏽🧑🏽👨🏽🧔🏽👴🏽☠️ Dec 20, 2019

DM me. I’m currently in consulting as a new grad also but am actively looking for a way out. I realized it wasn’t my cup of tea early on. I have an interview with Google coming up and still looking for other opportunities. It’s hard to start but it’s doable, let’s help get one another out 🎅🏾

New
Fedaykin OP Dec 21, 2019

This sounds like a no-win situation. Are you in a financial position such that you can quit this thing that’s making you miserable and instead devote your time to searching for something else? If so, bite the bullet. Don’t wait. This is the wrong fit for you and the manager isn’t making things better. All of this said: it does indeed sound like a legitimately bad fit. You’re not giving the manager what they need (because obviously their expectations are otherwise) and you’re not getting what you need, which is solid work experience, not a bunch of stuff you don’t know and can’t do. That doesn’t help you moving forward