My wife has access to all our money

“Make sure your wife and kids are able to access all family funds” A friend told me this when I first got married and it stuck with me. In the event that I’m no longer here, best to be prepared. - Online accounts use an email account that we both have access to - 2FA with Google Authenticator allows us to use the same account - Google voice for phone number used in account profile. we can use to make and receive calls from our laptop - we are both on a joint bank account that has the bulk of our funds - not used for day to day stuff Looking into trusts, will e.t.c. As well. #personalfinance #personalfinance I’m curious what people do in terms of estate planning and account management for stock, crypto, or any other type of financial account. I’m looking for services that take use cases like this in mind where it’s more seamless than simply sharing account creds. TC: $550k

Amazon yunoo Jan 7

Ensuring your wife gets all the assets and savings you have does not necessitate sharing all your accounts though

Salesforce cDCXO OP Jan 7

I’m at the very beginning stage of putting thought into this so I’m totally open to hearing and learning more efficient approaches.

Roblox BobBlox Jan 12

It's easier if they have access though. My dad doesn't want me to have to go through all the legalities in the case of an emergency. I can just login and transfer the money. They dealt with a lot of this when a relative had dementia and had to take over thier accounts. Also I mean this in addition to setting up beneficiaries, that should be your default. Give access as bonus to make it easier for them

Qualcomm diablo_ Jan 7

Instead just open a family trust, it’s simple

Salesforce cDCXO OP Jan 7

Yep have an appt with a lawyer to talk about Trusts and what options we have there

IBM abysq Jan 12

What cases would a family trust be good for? I’ve heard family trusts can be tricky to setup and of they make a mistake it can cost a lot more down the road.

Roblox i128 Jan 7

Use a password manager

Roblox BobBlox Jan 12

Family plan on 1password with a special vault for this stuff is what I do with my parents

Uber hBmu11 Jan 7

You could simply appoint her and your children after her as your beneficiary and let her know your accounts details. Every bank and brokerage account I've used allows that conveniently. And an up-to-date will would take care of whatever is left out of accounts.

Salesforce cDCXO OP Jan 7

Ok good to know. I’ll surely look into setting this up. Thanks

Qualcomm ee310s Jan 7

You can do this online.. only takes a few minutes for each account. I have done it too for all my accounts, although she does not know my passwords. I also maintain a Google doc shared with my children and her, that lists all our accounts, login id's etc., but no password.

Netflix bmpm Jan 7

We set up a trust and also hired a fiduciary to protect our assets. We also moved virtually everything into those.

Klaviyo TC_orGTFO_ Jan 7

Sign a prenup

Salesforce dmSF Jan 11

550 tc, architect?

Stripe asaurus Jan 12

1Password

ServiceNow spStTBg3 Jan 12

Setup a trust and a living will so your spouse and family knows what you want. You can’t tell them after you’re gone. As mentioned before, utilize a password manager and a financial aggregator like Personal Capital. This way they have a single view into assets and liabilities. Also setup your Apple next contact. I’ve gone through this with my wife in the event something happens to me.

Raytheon BPJn57 Jan 12

LOL assuming that OP is an Apple user

EY big4con Jan 12

Lol simp

Checkmarx Mim$hack Jan 12

Little kid..