In the 80s, life was simpler without the constant buzz of the internet and the relentless scroll of social media feeds. Back then, our comparisons were humble, grounded in the familiar faces of family and neighbors. I remember those days vividly, when success was measured by the pride in a neighbor's child excelling in school or a family member achieving a personal milestone. It was a time when the journey mattered more than the destination. As I transitioned into college, the scope of competition widened, but it still felt manageable. Among classmates, we pushed each other to do better, yet social media remained a platform for sharing laughter and camaraderie, not a showcase of achievements or wealth. It was a time of growth and exploration, where the journey was filled with ups and downs, but always felt within our grasp. However, the past decade brought about a seismic shift in the way we perceive success and measure our worth. The rise of hustle culture transformed social media into a global stage, where every post and picture seemed like a competition for validation and recognition. Suddenly, our achievements were no longer compared to those within our immediate circles, but to an endless stream of curated perfection. I've seen friends and colleagues succumb to the pressure, tirelessly chasing after success only to find themselves exhausted and disillusioned. It's like watching athletes compete in the Olympics, pouring their heart and soul into their craft, only to be overshadowed by the next rising star. Yet, amidst this whirlwind of comparison and competition, there's a simple truth that often gets lost in the noise: the importance of staying true to ourselves. It's about embracing our journey, with all its twists and turns, and finding fulfillment in the pursuit of our passions, regardless of external validation. I've come to realize that success isn't just about reaching the top of the mountain; it's about the courage to climb, the lessons learned along the way, and the relationships forged in the journey. It's about staying true to who we are, even when the world tells us otherwise. Do not lose sight of what truly matters. Celebrate the small victories, embrace the challenges, and stay true to yourself, knowing that your worth is not defined by external accolades, but by the passion and authenticity you bring to your journey. And perhaps, by talking openly about these struggles, we can foster meaningful conversations that help us navigate this complex terrain together. TC 350K/10YOE #mentalhealth
Any long post which gives life advice but does not advice “get off social media” is useless
We must live in different worlds. My friends are generally happy and don't have any of those problems. They also don't waste time on blind.
Thanks for the wise words. And nice writing!
Such posts are somehow always written by already successful people 😄😄
Sorry for deleting my earlier post, somehow I cannot edit a post once it’s public.