Misc.Jun 27, 2020
UniPro FoodserviceKwaNana

Hit me with expenses reality. Moving to San Jose

I'm moving to San Jose soon. I've built tree flooring expenses but I think I'm missing a dose of reality. Please slap me with a dose of reality. Base:113k After taxes and other deductions(401k, med, Hsa, all taxes): 67.5k (source:ADP take home calc) Monthly: 5,633. Rent: 2200 1br Loans:800 Child expense in a diff state:1000 Bills: grocery, utilities, car ins. Misc etc:1000 Car: 333 Savings:300 Savings could be increased by reducing rent significantly (1800 studio) Feasible or Delusional?? #livingexpenses #budget #San_Jose

Verizon Media Igpay13 Jun 27, 2020

The rent is too damn high.

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JvxTrsa Jun 27, 2020

This is a lie, San Jose cheaper than other cities nearby

Verizon Media Igpay13 Jun 27, 2020

I’m saying for OP, it’s too high.

Uber haheicoem Jun 27, 2020

Shop around now is a good time to find a deal even in SF

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JvxTrsa Jun 27, 2020

welcome to ManJose

Amazon cvpr Jun 27, 2020

so many hot latina mamacitas around here, are u kidding me???

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JvxTrsa Jun 27, 2020

Single? How many you got?

Google MsWayward Jun 27, 2020

Delusional

UniPro Foodservice KwaNana OP Jun 27, 2020

Which part?

Google MsWayward Jun 27, 2020

Just read your response about kid not living with you , i take my words back if it's a 1 man budget

Ironclad -[ಠ_ಠ]- Jun 27, 2020

Find a new job that pays higher base and TC. That salary won't last you long in the bay area.

UniPro Foodservice KwaNana OP Jun 27, 2020

That's the medium to long term goal. Thanks.

Facebook zuccccc Jun 27, 2020

Do you get any bonuses or stock? You can make it work (assuming your monthly expenses are an overestimate). Take whatever you save and put it in your 401K. Shop around and try to get a better deal on rent, consider roommates but make sure you find a place you like. With WFH, you’re gonna be particularly miserable if you are somewhere you don’t like. Get somewhere comfortable, even if it’s outside the Bay.

UniPro Foodservice KwaNana OP Jun 27, 2020

I really appreciate your input. I get bonuses and stocks, and are not factored into the calculation. I'll make it work whiles I work hard to increase my TC. Great advice.

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8 inches Jun 27, 2020

Why not factor them in? You should budget based on TC

Postmates shtz&ggles Jun 27, 2020

Goodness gracious! You need to find something that pays more.

Lyft 1👌1 Jun 27, 2020

I wouldn't move to san jose with that low of TC personally, budget is being stretched pretty thin. Maybe rent a room in a 2-3bdr if you can find such arrangement.

Walmart scci53 Jun 27, 2020

That TC doesn’t make a San Jose move worth it. Is your job being transferred to San Jose ? Maybe you could make it, but you would be treading water Maybe Fremont or Milpitas might be more “affordable”, but still. And not to disappoint and put things in perspective I think 90k is considered poverty with a family

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JvxTrsa Jun 27, 2020

It could be doable but you may not be able to save 401k or personal savings. I would take it knowing that I would have to make my best to get better job in 12 months or so. Biggest expenses are housing. You could rent a room for 800 or 1k. Or now that rent is cheaper you may be able to rent an ok place for 2k. Between gas and food maybe 1k or 1.5k so it is doable