How does this work?! you consented and the you changed your mind 5 months later?! Do men need to get the consent in writing and have it notarized? “I thought Jacob was a friend and engaged in consensual sexual relations with him during those three days. It took me five months to process and understand that Jacob had violated my trust and my body.” https://medium.com/@chelsea.komlo/behind-every-serial-abuser-there-are-many-enablers-491bf2303f82
Haven't you ever made a decision and then decided later you didn't feel good about it? Now imagine you are a woman and someone was pressuring you into sex. That seems to be a common situation.
You omitted the sentence just before the one you chose to quote: "This sexual assault involved drugs, manipulation, and the violation of my trust". Did your mom not teach you not to manipulate people, especially in sexual relationships?
An intoxicated/high person cannot consent to sex. If you have sex with that person, it is not consensual.
It should be really high level of intoxication, it seems it was not the case. Its a bit hard to believe person was completely smashed for the whole 3 days.
But of both people are intoxicated/high..... And they have sex.... WHY do we automatically jump to thinking that the women cannot truly consent? Why don't we think that the man could not have truly consented? Is the woman in every sexual encounter not equally responsible for making sure her partner is consenting? Or do women not have to worry about getting consent? They can just do whatever the Fuck they want?
Men need to start doing the same thing and acusing women if rape.
From your comments it's clear you don't get what happened and what is wrong here. It's wrong to pressure people hard to have sex, it's wrong to coerce, get them high or drunk in order to have sex with you. It probably won't do any good to state it, but this is different than the situation where you go out, have a drink or two, dance or whatever, go back to your place and have sex that you both want.
It sounds like the guy used manipulation, pressure, drugs, and alcohol to get “consent”. Also, he is a person of power so there’s a power abuse dynamic going there as well for her to “accept” the pressure. Processing manipulation and gaslighting takes weeks or months so it’s not surprising to hear this. Manipulators also go on full scale attacks and defense once they are accused, and that guy is doing exactly that. This is rape.
Do you hear yourself? How many assumptions are you adding to this woman's story in an attempt to agree with it?
Read the article. Article practically says that this Jacob person is a person of power, and if you read further down, she said she was intoxicated, drugged and manipulated. There is no assumption; I merely summarized it, and added that processing takes weeks and months.
Guys' intentions are always, ultimately, to put their dick in a pussy. The rest, particularly 'love', is pure fucking delusion.
You — you personally, OP — should absolutely get a signed contract from any prospective sexual partners for exactly what actions they consent to.
Rofl in her article she says she consented to the sex at the time. Shes just a leach taking advantage of metoo, trying to get $ and convince herself shes not a slut
Except she isn't seeking money. Kind of makes your comment look be a little rapey.
#MeToo == #IRegretThis sometimes
wait there were times i regretted hooking up with a girl after getting shitfaced, can i accuse them of rape? holy fuck this seems messed up, where’s the line between a regret and “being taken advantage of”?
The line is when you continue to pressure and lie after hearing "no" multiple times.
Dont bother arguing with the 'man always guilty' sjws. Its not illegal to try to convince a girl to have sex. Theyre fucking programmed to say no and put up token resistance when they want it. Literally every hookup ive had started with the girl saying we werent going to have sex and then consenting 10 minutes later. That's how you play the game. Feminists just wont be honest with their instincts.
More like they realize they can extort money. Fail to extort money. So they “change” their mind. Every time this stuff bleeds into the public eye, the only motivation is money.
There is absolutely no indication she is remotely interested in money
One time I bought a car but 5 months later I realized I don't want it. I'm suing the car dealer. I hope they go out of business.