EDIT thnx guys for the wonderful comments regarding weed, but whats the difference between a CRACKHEAD and a POTHEAD? Both sounds scary to me tbh idgaf about DUIs alot of celebs do this too The past weekend I dated a guy who did this But he was really sweet, had some tatted, had piercing, i didn't mind at all since its a preference thing plus it was pretty hot to me cause I have none of those I'm kind of new to drugs and drinking since I do neither. He was a true gentleman though, very polite - he opened the car door for me everytime and treated me fer a full course full service night. He asked me if I'm okay for a 2nd date and asked me how he was during the date. I feel like this type of guy is hard to find plus he told me he was looking to settle, we had great conversation that kept going all through the night, not to mention he was so good in bed - he was definitely much better than other guys I've had And we're going out again Wednesday. But the weed part is abit questionable fer me, does anyone smoke recreational weed? And could it be that he was high while spending the night w/ me? He also told me he has a DUI record; but I don't mind this at all its not like he was a convicted murderer. He also asked me if I would like to try it, but I kindly said no. Anyway, is it wise to go long term with guys who smoke weed? tax 160
Depends how often he smokes weed. What does he do for work. Is he successful.
he does some part time here and there that's not office work but he has big dreams of becoming successful he kept smoking it while on the date, i found it pretty hot cause I've never been around smokers
All of the potheads who live in their parents basements have "big dreams of becoming successful"
I smoke weed every night. EE. TC $320k. In great health. Stupid barometer. That’s like me not wanting to date a girl cause she watches romcoms.
whats 'EE'?
Exceeds expectations
If it is truly recreational weed habit, there is nothing to worry about. However, pressure test that. Especially given he has a DuI record. I will be more worried about that - it shows very poor judgement.
yea he told me he couldnt join the army due to the DUI so he's doing some other jobs now, but he's not like fked up or anything, he's really sweet
Weed smoker every day, even WFH LOL. TC 205k
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The DUI is more of a worry than the recreational weed IMO. DUI = 🚩
whats wrong with me? this whole time, ididntgaf about the DUI thing casue the weed was more of a concern for me kind of reminded me snorting coke from wolf of wall streets
Think of it this way, is this guy someone you would want around your pets, your kids (should you decide to have any) one day? The answer is simple!
Sounds very employable
There are some people who can smoke weed and be top performers. Other people cannot. If he’s successful and has ambition then I wouldn’t count it against him. If he’s a loser, then the weed isn’t helping and you’re not gonna save him.
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he doesn't do any office related work, he does part time here and there he's classic midwesterner
I don’t think smoking weed is a red flag. I mean drinking alcohol is technically worse for your health. I think u need to look at other things like if it’s affecting his performance in career and personal life. If he is ambitious and motivated you should not worry about that
I just smoke weed maybe every other weekend, listen to some vinyl, maybe hot tub, none of that changes that I'm a nice guy on dates and good at my job ..
Sorry OP - this guy is going to hit it and quit it. Maybe not after the first date, but you will stop getting calls returned after 3-4 times, guaranteed. Players gonna play.
Lol what could have possibly made you say this? Sounds like some lame stereotyping.
he was the sweetest guy i've met, he repected my feelings asking me if I wanted a baby cause we went raw and I didnt have a c0nd0*