I’m a US citizen desi and seems I can only match and stick with other desi girls who have some visa issues. I’ll facetime a us citizen and get ghosted Visa girls seem to chase me on the apps though. I’m 6’3” $155k tc $650k nw age 29 own my own home, drive a tesla, have a runway modeling contract, but I am socially awkward
Sounds like you think they are GC diggers and you're trying to avoid GC diggers. What plan do you have to avoid covert gold diggers?
Don’t marry someone who doesn’t have a GC
That saves you from 10%. Good luck with rest of them.
Why not someone who is super hot and rich ?
My husband is a US citizen also. But we fell in love very organically and dated for 7 long years married for 2 years happily now. Whether she benefits from your citizenship is secondary, find someone who genuinely likes you.
Drive a Tesla 😂 saying it so proudly, that’s the most desi thing I will ever read.
Yeah the model 3 after discount costs less than a Camry hybrid right now lol
Any reason why citizens are not attracted/matching to you? Recently, I talked to an ABCD, and blocked him after 4.5 minutes. He was entitled, had a superiority complex, and thought its appropriate to bring up my ‘visa status’ within 2 mins of the first phone conversation. Acted like ‘visa’ holders are beggars that come to the US with inferiority complex, while it was him who sent me an invite through a matrimonial app and followed up constantly for a week until we set up a time to talk. I am 33, he was 35 & ugly. After that I decided to never waste time on ABCDs. Better to stick to my ‘visa struggling’ tribe. Act like this, and they'll run! Problem solved.
Actually feels like, you both are talking to each other publicly 😂 just kidding.
Girls have plenty of choices in America. The ratio is like 1 girl for 10 Indian guys. Green card is not a determining factor but does give you an edge over folks in H1b. But if a girl does not like you she won’t date you for green card. Plenty of options for them
Lmao .. this post is pure bull shit. When I was a single woman, I found ABCDs extreme snobs. For some weird reasons they think they are better than everybody else. They also have a superiority notion that desi girls are easy to impress , so most of them follow a “use and throw” attitude towards us. Listen my ABCD friend , it does not matter for how many generations you and your family have been in USA, you will always be called an “Indian American”.
Unless they keep going interracial all the time. Then you can say 5% indian or something like that. Lol
Don't tell you are US citizen. Tell you were born in india, parents went to US and could not get green card due to backlog 😂
Women generally date/marry for the benefits, while men date/marry for looks.
Maybe don't mention you are a US citizen on the app?
They can usually tell from my accent that I grew up in USA
Tell them you came to the US as a teen and your parents stuck in the visa backlog?