TC 305k, over 30 years old and finally look past my mid twenties which I am fine with, engineer, just enough nerdiness to hang with my nerd peeps, every day I dress well and do my makeup well (it’s a hobby), I have interesting outdoorsey activities that keep me in shape, 37-25-37, 5’4”, 110lbs, 32D, long hair/great skin/straight teeth etc, financially stable, easygoing af, been proposed to or almost got married 4 times plus lived with some boyfriends seriously, INTP, speak multiple languages, know a ton about music/haute and pop culture/food (I.e. I’m not an insulated Leetcode nerd), well educated, have good friends I can turn to, have more matches on dating apps than I can keep up with.... and I will never settle down for a dude who doesn’t meet my standards. If that means I end up alone then that’s fine because being alone is awesoooome and I would be cool having a kid alone and my family would also be cool with it. Let the woman haters and incels come out. Idgaf. Dudes need to step up their game and my friends say they agree with me. 💁🏻♀️
Interesting. Fellow INTP here also fine with being alone, and my finding is that women need to step up their game if they expect me to go after them.
This is probably why INTPs end up with extroverts. I’ve been thinking about this lately and pushing myself more when I come across other introverts (I’m damn good at socializing, it’s just tiring.)
Freeze your eggs.
Possibly! Why not right
Omlette them later?
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You are a truly rotten person .. die alone
Hahahahhahaaa there they are
Ni hao spreading some hate. What is wrong with what was said in the post? And why so many likes on the rude comment
Since you felt the need to qualify yourself so much on an anonymous forum, I can already tell you feel insecure about aging. Possibly lonely. Just want to say you're not alone. It's ok for life to not be perfect. If you are ok going single forever, that's fine. But do date around a bit. Sometimes the guys who don't meet your bar are actually what you've been looking for. It's ok for life to not be perfect. Choose your imperfections well.
Well said
Nah if anything getting older has been a relief. Care less about a lot of things that bugged me when I was younger. Let go of a lot of people and strengthened relationships that really mattered. Feel good about my interests and profession. I tend to turn down a lot of socializing though because I’m an introvert. So definitely not lonely. I go on a date every couple weeks and have dated a TON in the last couple decades so I’m not really missing anything there. But yes, tell me more about what my life is and what I should do with it?
I’m curious what you look like but I’m sure you’d never post a picture here.
Definitely not. I could see a lot of angry men here doxxing because of something like this that triggers them
Yeah probably. What kind of guys do you prefer? Honestly to me it sounds like you’re telling yourself you have many reasons to be happy. But is there anything you want in life that you feel is missing?
more power to you! I honestly don’t have any meaningful questions.
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Body count? I only have 1.
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TLDR version please?
TLDR: Desirable woman fine being alone will trigger all the Blind incels. I like to call them “Blincels”.
Looks like she just got dumped and is venting.. 😆