My husband just got citizen last year and he filed for me two weeks later. Well our interview coming up for my green card next week. Well earlier today we got in an argument and he said if I don’t start acting correctly it will only be me in that interview.. I was so confused never has he done this before . This is my life we are talking about. What should I do?
I don't know what stage you're at, but yes, until a petition is granted, the petitioner may withdraw their petition. That's the law. There are some protections against spousal abuse, but you have to demonstrate actual abusive behavior - the law will not view "I want to withdraw my USCIS petition" as abusive. Once you get a green card (conditional or permanent) you have more rights. I would hire a lawyer.
Good advice, seek legal counsel. If it was me, I would file for a divorce just as soon as you can once you have your greencard in hand. No one deserves to be treated this way.
OP: first of all, you should act right. Then yes, your husband is correct. Your GC is contingent upon his sponsorship or you can just file on your own.
That’s not love. Why pull this just for small argument. It’s a power move.
Sure. You can call it however you want. You want the GC or not? People go through those sh*t all day every day. With the decline of the US, the lure of America is also dwindling. You do you, OP. Find your inner peace and move on with your life.
Kiss his ass until you get a green card and then divorce
This is the correct answer.
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Nothing till the interview then evaluate relationship. That is not ok to do. I went through a divorce while on conditional green card. They still gave it to me when it came time to make it permanent as our marriage was real despite the divorce - had lots of evidence, photos, vacations, lease together, bills etccc
But OP is not at that stage yet. Before the conditional, the sponsor can withdraw the petition.
oh shit you about to be PIP’ed. Start FMLA asap and hit LC hard problems
LC all the way
We got in an argument. Why not unpack that? What did you argue about? Have you been arguing about bullshit a lot? Is he toxic and threatening while you are utterly blameless, or what?
The woman is “always” blameless. 🤡🙄
Then start acting correctly! Else call the marriage off and lose your GC.
This is SO toxic
Time to prepare your resume and switch companies
Gold 😂