We have found out that we are having twins, and we already have a couple of kids (one is older, and the other is 3). We aimed for just one more, but will now end up with 4! We live in the Bay Area - so COL is already crazy. Anyone with 4+ kids in the Bay Area? Especially where both parents work? What are good coping techniques to get through this situation in 1 piece? Household TC - 900k
900k tc means you can buy your way out of a lot of work. Get a nanny and a housekeeper. Hire chefs to cook your meals. Etc
You make 900k, chill tf out
You make 900k. I wouldn't be worried.
For now, the past 6 months has shown that can evaporate in an instant and lead to halving of TC when no one else wants to pay the same
Congratulations π My advice is to get as much help as you can afford. Nanny, house cleaner, cook, night nurse, activities for the older kids. Infant twins take a lot of care. When they are very young, they sleep a lot but erratically. Itβs tough to be at your best on 6 hours of sleep stretched over 10 hours π¬ Also they are not a set, they are two different people. Donβt expect them to want to eat, sleep, or enjoy the same activities. You already have two kids so this is easier to explain to you than it is to brand new parents. Some people think of them as one kid in two bodies ππ¬ which is wild. My sisters twins are the same gender but they are night and day. One sporty, the other a studious kid, and they look nothing alike.
Congratulations and Thanks for raising future tax payers..
Godspeed
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You have the love of 4 kids. You should be lucky to have that. You also will have the experience of raising twins which is very rare too. Look at the bright side. You will be happy if you think positive.
Party time π₯³ Congratulations π You can get plenty help with that TC. So enjoy the company
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Congratulations and good luck!!