When To Quit Women And Try Men?
I’m getting to a point in my online dating experience where I feel like I should just switch to the male version. It boggles my mind because I get tons of compliments from women in real life, and have no issues with women through social circles. But when it comes to tinder/bumble I totally tank. When I do match with girls, they are incapable of banter, have bland personalities and are impossible to meet up with. I wonder if I should just switch to men? Never been attracted to men before but I figure it’s easier than putting up with this bullshit. Anyone with experience in this domain?
Since you do so well with women in social circles, why don't you just double down on that?
Because I moved to a new city and it’s hard to make friends when you’re not in college/overworked
Are there women who aren't taken yet?
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Haha ur option are designed to just tell u what we did instead of what u should do?? For example, if I never tried men, I can't suggest you to go and at least try men for few months and see
What are you hoping to get out of your future relationship? The only reason I see to consider switching teams is if you want sex/physical intimacy and feel like you could potentially enjoy that with a man. Otherwise, the many other benefits of a romantic relationship can be found through close platonic friendships and there is no need to switch teams for that.
You’re right, maybe I should get a sex robot instead
So I have a friend who kinda did this, he had never identified as queer in any way, but he is an open minded guy and thought he would give it some try. He just isn't sexually or romantocally attracted to guys at all. He said he had a great date they got along well, guy knew what was up and the end of it my friend just told him 'ya know this has been fun and you are objectively attractive and all that but I think I'm just not attracted to guys'. You can't fake that, you are or you aren't. So unless you are actually attracted to guys... No you probably shouldn't try guys. For dating apps: you seem to get a bit of a boost when you first start a profile in terms of getting matches. It seems like these day you either have to pony up money or delete account and start over on occasion. FWIW bumble has had the best luck for me 🤷
How far did he go?
I think they parted ways after s couple hours grabbing drinks. Again it's either for you or it isn't. If you aren't sexually attracted to someone after a couple of hours of drinks, probably not going to ever be haha.
“I’m tired of women so I’ll try dick” said no straight man ever... if u like guys look for guys, not that hard...
A holes a hole
Once again, said no straight man ever... rip that closer door wide open & go be you
Yup the answer to not getting bumble matches is def taking it in the ass from a guy.
I would be giving, not receiving.
That’s what she said
Why being single is not an option? Do you really need a relationship?
If woman compliment you in person why not stick to real life dating? You will find the occasional gem from online dating but most women you find there are attention whores and most guys on there are douchebags and/or totally clueless about women. 😎
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Not trolling, genuinely frustrated with online dating and want to see if anyone has had experience switching sides
Why men? Perhaps a chimp would better suit you?