What work timings to manage 2 elementary kids and one way commute being 1+ and 2+ hours for both parents?
Is moving closer an option? If not, au pair? Part time nanny?
Where tf do you live to have such crazy commutes? Unacceptable for both people to have these. Optimize for one person.
Fremont probably
Stop being a cheap Indian and hire a nanny
Hahaha how did you know they're Indian?
Username: billupinki gave it all away :)
I recommend moving closer to work for at least one of you. But it is still hard
Mom works 7-3 and manages pick ups. Dad does morning drop offs.
Hi Pinki
It can also be billu, you might be in for a surprise :)
Let him enjoy his fantasy for a bit
Salute to U & ur spouse....u guys have already done more than many couples can think of.
Agree 100% - it's really hard to be rich and cheap - just remember you are in it for the long run - it's a marathon and not a Sprint - do the math on bringing a parent or two here, if they are not already here vs hiring a nanny
Hire a nanny
a nanny is not going to magically solve all problems. Our kid goes to day care, kids over 2 need interaction and socialization the most, not a nanny to babysit them.
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