If by some miracle you’re somewhat older and married with kids or you lucked out and were in a relationship a long time, good for you, the high TC is worth it. But for most of us it isn’t. See most of us are unattractive loners. We defer gratification and tell ourselves things will get better when we make more money, THEN women will realize we have value. But of course they won’t and never do. We never become attractive, if anything we become LESS attractive because we age, lose hair, get wrinkles, many get fat (I didn’t luckily). This level of money and effort gain us nothing, we are still worthless in the ways that actually matter, attractiveness. It doesn’t make women any more likely to date you earning more than other guys, a woman would rather have a completely broke guys that’s hot than any of us And maybe a tiny percentage of you will get a girl who’s been completely run through by hot guys and needs some dork to financially support her, maybe that’ll be you. But of course she’ll never truly be attracted to you and at best she’ll cheat on you with hot guys behind your back or convince you that she needs an “open relationship” to do the same thing but with your full knowledge. Any “relationship” would entirely be on her terms and serve her and you would literally just be a checkbook to her And people will make comments disagreeing but deep down you all know it’s true. And others will say LOWER YOUR STANDARDS, but guess what I’m not obese and if not wanting an obese woman is “too high a standard” than I really should just off myself right now
You're projecting. If you thought money was gonna solve all your problems you're sadly mistaken my friend.
I’m not projecting shit most of us are sexless dorks who chase TC because we know we will never get anything else in this life, we’re too unattractive
Well I used to have literally under half my current TC at Bloomberg working somewhere else. Would be crazy to claim I and my gf didn't improve our lifestyles as a result.
Bro, if you feel you're still a loser after success that's fine. Stop projecting your own failures on to the rest of us
You’re just in denial, this is without a doubt the vast majority of guys on here and you know it
Denial about what specifically? I'm a happy person, who makes good money, lives well, is not affected by layoffs, and enjoys life. What am I in denial about?
Get some therapy dude. Also women might be more interested in you if you weren't such an obviously flaming misogynist.
I'm normally against therapy for normal people, but seems op really needs it, and has a lot of pent up anger and confusion, where therapy may actually be effective
I’ve been in therapy ten years, I have no idea why people think I’m misogynistic, I’m not. I don’t blame women for being disgusted by guys like us, I would be too if I was a woman. Guys like us have poor genetics, THAT is the primary thing women filter for, I mean duh millions of years of evolution. It makes perfect sense and it’s in women’s best interest to filter losers like us. I’m just not sugarcoating anything, this is the harsh truth you guys need to hear
“We are still worthless in the ways that actually matter, attractiveness.” Physical looks don’t matter either. Focus on health and happiness.
Absolute bullshit. Attractive genetics are the ONLY thing that matter in life and we have zero control over them. Health and happiness are a function of being born hot and nothing will ever change that.
Explain why so many attractive celebs are unhappy?
Have you tried touching grass?
I have, that didn’t change my ugly genetics
Tech TC is more than enough to live a great life, if you have actual interests (other than impressing women) that keep you happy. As for becoming physically unattractive, get off your lazy ass and workout. There are people in their 30s who are at their peak.
Working out isn’t gonna change your height or bone structure or hairline, I mean it probably won’t even change your muscles because even THAT is genetically determined way more than people wanna believe. You’re straight up admitting that you basically just need to distract yourself with stuff besides women because us tech guys are so worthless to them
Hair I agree, but you don't need genetics unless you're aiming to go for bodybuilding professionally. It takes so much less to just be attractive.
Better be a rich loner than a poor loner
Both are still horrible worthless lives
Get a hot sugar baby and enjoy your TC. Buy a nice car. Get a good house. Get a six pack.
If money is the only thing that you can offer a woman, than you’re doing it wrong. Having a personality goes a long way. Most people in tech don’t have one or are trying to use some 3rd world techniques to pick up women here. Thats why I constantly see this type of post on blind. It’s either a lonely white guy or Indian guy.
Personality straight up DOES NOT MATTER to women. You know how I know? How many hot guys with horrible personalities have you met? Literally none of them have any difficulty getting girls because in the end women do not give a shit about a man’s personality in the same way they don’t care about TC, just how hot he is. “It’s either a lonely white guy or Indian guy.” There’s no one else on here
That's one thing that I've found crazy in tech... The personalities here are grotesque.
I’m neither attractive nor unattractive, and at least in this category, money makes all the difference.✌️
Exactly. And if you go for the same group of women.
No it doesn’t
I didn't read any of your words. Post TC
240k TC, aka 🥜
That’s not peanuts