I don't drink, smoke or hike. What are my options to mingle with people? I don't want to do things lik glass shaping etc
I don't want to do things like glass moulding, archery just for the sake of trying. I know deep down I won't enjoy all those #misc
Blind, this is the only mingling thats appropriate in this case
Not trying to be rude, but what do you have to offer that people would want to mingle with you? Start there
You can always pick up some of those habits?
You have very good amount of options to mingle with people. You can meet a lot of new people by drinking, smoking or hiking. And that doesn’t mean you need to do them or anything else to meet other people. Meeting people means you need to interact with them. Get to know about them, what they do. And if you don’t enjoy that how would they enjoy interacting with you? That’s the beauty of connections. If you just want you do the things you do you need to wait for the people who also do them so you both can have a connect. May be 10 in 3 years !? 🤔
Stay home, download tinder
Hiking is pretty easy dude
You know how we Americans are. The trip from the couch to the fridge is a “hike” for most.
Oh ok you are an American fine
Join a choir
Start drinking that is the easiest advice
Go out for coffee, a dinner, a drive. Sightseeing. A movie. A standup comedy show, a concert. Group classes in the gym, a yoga class. Music, dance, or Toastmasters, book club, if you’re into it. Travel. Volunteer. Host events. Attend events through Meetup.com. Date. Try something new (Did you watch the meteor shower recently?). I mean there’s SO MUCH to do! You’ll meet new people through literally any of these, honestly.
I don’t drink or smoke either ( I do hike though), and I do at least half of the activities I mentioned above. There’s a big world out there beyond just drinking and smoking 🙂
Exactly. I have tried almost all of these things at some point. I liked some, didn't like others so much. So much to do! On that note, how do you track meteor showers or any other major astronomical events?
Bathhouse
This is hilarious. But in some ironic way is true. Meaning none of us men are really into this gay shit either. We just pretend to eventually end up with someone. If you don't, simply pay for sex