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I just found out that he was secretly spending $3k/mo on Uber (didnt charge his electric), Doordash, random subscriptions like Shutterstock and personal Zoom, and only paying the minimum payment on his credit card. He was $20K in debt. He never contributes to savings. He buys expensive gadgets like phones, and bigger TVs, and better speakers, etc. His 401K contributions were set 7 years ago and he never checked them. The last drop is - he was walking from the bank with cash today and lost it! 😡 Anyone else in the same situation? How can I rein him in?
Does he earn anything or living off yours?
he earns 60% of our TC
Where is the problem then, you want man to remain poor even after toiling hard all day?
Counselling. If things get out of control separation is the best. You do not want to put up with people like this as there is minimal chance for change.
Divorce
we have two young kids to boot
Maybe you should talk about his spending habits
Feels like a troll post
and yet I live it
oof
How the fuck do people overlook such things when deciding to marry
It could be a habit they picked up later. Like for example my friends husband started using lots of onlyfans and other subscriptions because she stopped trying to be in shape and their sex life took a steep fall. Shit happens.
he was a saver before. We lived on $54k/y while in grad school for many years
If he has a normal job he should be able to pay off $20k debt in 2 months
Sounds like your husband needs a psych
Are you Indian?
Sorry op, you've to move on. Seen this many times and didn't end well
have two young kids together
Uber or Uber eats?
Food is from DoorDash.
How do you spend 3k on Uber w/o Uber eats?