fuck my life

Sep 5, 2019 74 Comments

im doing reasonably good in career.
but fucked up in all other aspects 😪
dont have good friends to enjoy the company
fucked up love life - breakups and heart breaks
no family near by - i feel miserable
only reason i live is to pay the bills and for that paycheck.

i’m drunk and vulnerable. pls dont troll. jus hlp of u can

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  • Target / Cust. Srv. tmDe33
    World of warcraft classic is out try that
    Sep 5, 2019 1
    • Special place in hell...
      Sep 5, 2019
  • I recommend finding hobbies and then friends will come. I mountain bike and have met others while riding. Same goes w any other hobby- gaming, poker, swimming, soccer, etc.
    Sep 5, 2019 3
    • Datometry / Eng LangEr
      This
      Sep 5, 2019
    • Valero Energy Corporation UrdntGrunt
      I made so many friends in Mountaineering. I guess when you shit and piss next to each other you get close.
      Sep 6, 2019
    • Microsoft
      leetcodexo

      Microsoft

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      leetcodexomore
      I made friends doing LeetCode.
      Sep 6, 2019
  • Amazon ccQS47
    It's never over. You can make new friends and lovers. Open your heart and love will come to you! Also you should probably get out there too!
    Sep 5, 2019 0
  • Boeing AFJ
    try the MeetUp app! you can find people who want to meet up in groups for almost anything... books, languages, politics, sailing, bowling, yoga, knitting, gaming... this is a way to meet people in social situations without the pressure of dating or being on a date.
    if you are religious or spiritual, try to find a faith communty (mosque/synagogue/church/ashram.)

    most importantly! find a mental health professional you can trust. talk to them regularly. i've been seeing mine for ten years. there's nothing deeply or pathologically wrong with me... i just come from a weird and mixed-cultural family and i dont fit in very well in the PNW. my psychologist has helped me to understand myself better, grow confidence, and learn LIFE SKILLS like self-care and setting boundaries.

    when you live alone, you must learn to take care of yourself. mom is not here. you must learn what makes you feel good, then do that for YOURSELF! not rely on others. do you love having delicious hot food at the end of the day? cook some in large batches on the weekend. whenever i do this, i feel loved and happy. after a long day, and i have great food ready, i think, "thank you, past self. that was a lot of thoughtful energy you put forth and i'm so grateful!" same thing with getting exercise, washing all the sheets, doing any sort of personal care. it makes me feel loved (by myself.) then, the more you cultivate this positive energy, the more people will be drawn to you. that is NOT the goal. it just HAPPENS as a byproduct of you being happy.

    keep fighting and trying. keep exploring. you are valuable, smart, and strong. you got this. ✌🏼🙏🏼
    Sep 5, 2019 2
    • Amazon Bongu le!
      OP
      Pls hug me 🤗
      Sep 5, 2019
    • Boeing AFJ
      🤗🤗4 hugs🤗🤗
      Sep 5, 2019
  • Microsoft goddamnit
    Strip club.
    Sep 5, 2019 2
    • Amazon sPIE23
      The most logical near term solution
      Sep 5, 2019
    • Microsoft goddamnit
      Exactly. You just need something to jump-start some enjoyment and get you in a good mood. The rest will follow.
      Sep 5, 2019
  • Amazon wEju6g
    Go back to India if you think you have earned enough. Live with family there. Enjoy the festivals there. Get married. Make new friends and reconnect with old ones. Live your life. :)
    Sep 5, 2019 0
  • You sound like a 50 year old man. I mean even if you are, it’s still fine, life has ups and down.

    But if you’re younger which I think you are, you are way too young to worry about shit like this. Pick yourself up and hold your head up.
    Sep 5, 2019 2
    • Amazon Bongu le!
      OP
      29 I’m. With 0 hopes about future 😪
      Sep 5, 2019
    • Oh god you’re so young. Countless others at your age would give an arm and a leg to be at where you’re at, having a successful career at Amazon and whatnot.

      You’re doing fine. Try to spend more time outdoors though, find peace within yourself.
      Sep 5, 2019
  • Microsoft gdlgedpo
    Always Be Hopeful. Life will get better. You're a great person and you'll get everything you dream of one day. Just open yourself up to all the possibilities
    Sep 5, 2019 2
  • Amazon sQFi87
    Leave Amazon
    Sep 5, 2019 0
  • DealerSocket / Eng
    ronaldo7

    DealerSocket Eng

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    code till dead 💀
    ronaldo7more
    String s = {your_problems}
    String.format(s, your_username);
    // must know a famous South Indian language
    Sep 5, 2019 5
    • Microsoft jrirnri
      Really? This is the only thread/ avenue you found to showcase your coding skills.
      Sep 5, 2019
    • Amazon Bongu le!
      OP
      Odemma jeeevitham. Endi bhayya ee lifu
      Sep 5, 2019
    • DealerSocket / Eng
      ronaldo7

      DealerSocket Eng

      BIO
      code till dead 💀
      ronaldo7more
      @jrirnri what part of that really feels like coding skills, just humor man, 'Bongu le!'
      @Bongu le bro: I feel you I was there before, try and get back to your school friends, let your friends introduce you to their friends and grow your circle, pick a sport, my life changed after I started playing soccer and learnt how to swim, made a lot of friends, also go to tech meetups or some other meetups whatever interests you.
      Sep 5, 2019
    • Microsoft
      leetcodexo

      Microsoft

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      leetcodexomore
      What programming language is this?
      Sep 6, 2019
    • DealerSocket / Eng
      ronaldo7

      DealerSocket Eng

      BIO
      code till dead 💀
      ronaldo7more
      Pseudo code
      Sep 6, 2019

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