life loneliness
I feel good life requires a girlfriend. Some activities like traveling or going to movie are better lived with Gf. Basically I am getting to the conclusion that friends are not enough, gf is a must have even though it comes with risks. Curious what other people think
I would say it is a biological need to have a SO.
Huh?
Friends are great. You have to create life for yourself. Even if you get a gf and marry someone, one day the other person will die if you donāt die first and you will once again have to deal with creating happiness for yourself. Itās hard to be alone. At the same time, the world is filled with great things waiting for you.
It is inevitable that SO will die. That doesn't mean we shouldn't have one in life
Love is a really great feeling. I get you. Itās nice to have a SO.
This is a very mechanical way of looking at it...
Maintain a table Girlfriend with columns Id, Name, Age, GirlfriendStatus, etc Maintain a cache where given an activity, you get the results from the cache. Else fetch from the DB table. Default girlfriendId key expiry time: 3 months (make this configurable) Delete row from the database when you see red flags. Update records when required (dates turn into a relationship, etc). Throw in a load balancer in front of it if you are concurrently accessing too many records at once. Life is a CRUD!
What if there is a cache miss and data corruption?
Restore the database from backup. Build the cache again.
I am shitty at attracting a partner but society thinks there is something wrong with you if you donāt have a SO.
What's wrong with you then?
Whatās wrong with me is that I want to be alone when I am with people and I want to be with people when I am alone Itās weird
Fucking incels
"requires a gf" lol...man tech people...
Lol too funny
"Must have but has risks"
You do know you can go travel and go to movies with random friends right? All you listed was activities and you wanted someone consistent to do stuff with. If you get no emotional utility or value then it is cheaper to just find a best friend. If you want someone to love and "trade emotions and experiences" (ie have a relationship with) that is different and you didn't mention any of that in your "I must have a gf" post. Pls don't go find a gf just because everyone else is, it's not the best for you. Tons of relationships are basically built on "I need a relationship" so ymmv.
I think you are trying too hard to misunderstand the OP!
Op is using travel and movies as a euphemism
Is someone trying to test their latest chat bot?
Same boat. I feel you. Sometimes you really need intimacy with another human beings (not necessarily for sex).
After marriage u will think reverse
Happily married. Wife is way better than gf.