Lost all motivation in life
Ex got engaged recently. Manager has put me on dev plan. Have gained few pounds. Become anti social. Marriage on my mind all the time. Have no motivation left to get out of the dev plan or get a new job or reduce weight. What should I do !? Age 27!
oh for the love of God, enough with this nonsense Indian lingo
Tf does it mean to do the needful?
This is 90% of SDEs at amazon
Is that how the SDE levels are assigned? SDE 3 hates themselves more than SDE2?
Eat only banana.
Dude, get your shit together. Your ex won't sponsor your H1 if you're fired. Anti social is ok just concentrate on work and maybe lookout for another job. Job is everything. Without that you're not getting any girl to get married after getting kicked back to India.
What am I missing here? Op didn't mention he was on h1.
That's a known
You're only 27 you've got a lot of time. Chill.
You wanna talk? Pm me
Please talk to a professional... therapist, physician, clergy. I went through almost exactly the same at that age. Wasn’t until I talked to people who knew how to help that it got better. Now I’m married with two kids and doing well in my job. We all need help sometimes.
This. The only meaningful comment in this post. OP, please pay heed.
Clergy? Lol
Stay strong, only you can help yourself no one else can, give it time and move on..
I disagree that only you can help yourself. You sometimes do have to reach for the outstretched hand, or make the call to someone who knows how to help, but those outstretched hands can help pull you out.
^ do you call that "lean in", Sheryl? 😉
> What should I do !? The needful, obviously
Lol
Snap out of it!
Personally I would avoid anything to do with Snap, but that’s just me.