skin cancer?

Feb 13 17 Comments

ok as an asian fob who married a white husband, idk how big of a deal skin cancer is. he said its a quarter sized tumor on his neck. he’s getting a 45 min surgery in a month.

yes ill be nicer to him and stuff as i would if he has the flu but hes treating it like its a pimple. is he downplaying it or am i over-reacting?

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  • Uber / Eng jojorabbit
    Not sure what the Asian fob has to do with this.. Asians get cancer too..
    This is probably him dealing
    Feb 13 2
    • Amazon / Eng guiced-up
      nah only white americans get cancer right? 🤪
      Feb 14
    • Facebook nebbie
      OP
      Ha Ive never seen or heard of anyone who has had skin cancer growing up. Typically if anyone had cancer, it was stomach cancer almost always.
      Feb 14
  • Intuit rEpp28
    He may be downplaying it as a way to comfort you. My husband does that type of stuff to me all the time because I tend to panic.
    Feb 13 1
    • Facebook nebbie
      OP
      Hey, thank you for this
      Feb 14
  • Cruise Automation Jippy
    It all depends. I’ve lost friends to stage 4 melanoma that looked like 2-3 pimples. Please support your husband.
    Feb 13 0
  • Sounds semi serious
    Feb 13 0
  • Twitch ajvh25
    Quarter sized tumor on skin feels pretty serious.
    Feb 13 0
  • Intel / Strategy hbar
    Carcinoma or melanoma? The former is pretty manageable, the latter more serious.
    Feb 13 0
  • LinkedIn ztn
    As an asian why would you marry down?
    2d 1
  • Hard to tell but if the procedure is scheduled in a month probably not that serious. Doctors usually know what can wait and what can’t
    Feb 13 1
    • Twitch ajvh25
      True, could just be a fatty tumor.
      Feb 13
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  • LinkedIn / Eng igotb&
    He could be fine or he could be dead in 18 months, ask the doctor.
    Feb 14 0

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