Dating app data confirms it, women swipe right on about 5% of less of men and it’s generally the same highly attractive men. You can say oh it’s because women get more matches, well yeah because men aren’t anywhere near as shallow as women are, men will match with MOST women, men have very low standards. I’m not judging women, frankly if I was a woman I would want the best looking man with the best genetics for my kids. There’s nothing wrong with being shallow. What I don’t like is how often women blatantly lie about not being looks obsessed, when every price of data shows they are, far more so than men. If anything men lie the other way, pretending they only want very hot women but in reality they will data any woman they can get, which is generally an unattractive woman. Women should just admit they have no interest in 95% of men and stop pretending they care about personality or confidence, they so clearly don’t. It’s really pathetic, if anything it’s MEN who care about personality
I also only swipe right on 5% lol both men and woman are superficial but it’s just that men are desperate so they compromise on what they like. When women say they care about personality, ambition, etc. it’s already assuming the guy is at least an 8. While when a guy says it it’s assuming she’s at least a 2. Both same sentiment just the base bar is much lower for men. Context is important. It’s like saying all FAANG engineers are superficial because they only interview at top companies, they just have better accessibility to those opportunities so they take it. People who don’t have those opportunities take what they can get but would do the same if they had the opportunity. I’m a guy btw.
If men are willing to compromise then guess what? They ARENT SUPERFICIAL! Woman want a guy to be a 9 or above these days, they lost interest in 8s when dating apps took off. Women ARE superficial because they only want the hottest guys and they lie about it. If they didn’t lie I wouldn’t have any issues with their behavior
Lol I’m a man and I won’t compromise. If you’re desperate that’s your problem, the whole world doesn’t have to lower themselves to your rock bottom standards. They’re not lying just have a higher bar, would you date a super overweight 3 if she had a great personality? Didn’t think so. Men are also like this, you’re just a loser incel
If you don’t stand for something- you fall for everything. Then what makes you different from a dog? So STFu and go back to doing that build.
What?
I think dating apps makes all people shallow. You have nothing to go off of beyond photos
No women were already shallow, dating apps just made it easier. Also you do realize people don’t really date outside of apps once they finish college? Again this is what the statistics tell us
I’m not saying that people aren’t or shouldn’t use dating apps or that there’s really any alternative. But I am saying that the nature of dating now is more superficial than it was in the past for anyone. Before you’d meet someone and you’d see how you liked them and found reasons you liked them, now you have a list of what you’re looking for in your head and you try to find that in the hinge and bumble catalogs Men consistently rank looks as the number one factor and openly admit that. Women… maybe we do too idk but we don’t seem to want to even admit that to ourselves which suggests we at least think on some level it’s not the most important (but thoughts and feelings are two different beasts)
OP is just excessively thirsty
I just think lying is wrong, I wouldn’t have any issue if women would admit they’re shallow, even more shallow than men. I’m not thirsty because I’ve given up, I know I’m worthless
MGTOW are the most parched they just deny it
Yes, and men are the true romantics while women are pragmatists. Welcome to the world.
Yup exactly. Women should stop lying about it
Well that wouldn't be very pragmatic.
Rajesh spotted by another Sandeep 😂
OP might want to consider plastic surgery? Or maybe just swipe for the ugly ones since you don’t care that much about looks 🤷♂️ Woman spend more time making themselves look good..so can’t blame them for wanting guys that look good.. If you swipe right to 95% of the girls and can’t get one to like you.. that’s your problem..
Plastic surgery isn’t gonna change the fact that I can’t grow muscles I’ve swiped on plenty of ugly girls I can’t get them either. I deleted the apps and gave up, I know I’m worthless
Fortunately there is still arranged marriage for you? Maybe?
You can't really judge anyone's personality in apps. Looks are the most prominent feature. If apps aren't working out for you, how about trying different approaches instead of thinking you are worthless or taking your anger out like this? Try to meet as many new people as you can in real life, and things may start working out.
Same recommendation I mentioned maybe apps like MeetUps can help him meet real people
https://www.statista.com/chart/amp/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ After college couples don’t meet anywhere but apps. This chart is 3 years old and the trend has moved even further towards apps. Similarly fewer men than ever are dating (like myself) https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/ We also are seeing record level overdoses and unaliving, again almost entirely men. Yes I have tried different approaches to dating. They didn’t work and statistically they aren’t working for the vast majority of men. Unaliving is my best option at this point
Meeting strangers off dating apps has a lot of inherent risk, especially for women. Women swipe more on attractive men because they appear more trustworthy and not likely to be a serial killer, which is women’s biggest fear on dating apps. Whereas the biggest fear for men on dating apps is women looking fatter than their pictures. So who’s the more superficial one now
“Inherent risk” Oh cmon. Women could give a shit if a guy seems dangerous as long as he’s hot. He could literally tell them he just got out of jail, but if he’s top 5% genetics they will jump on him. The safest guys by far are boring dorks like me and we get by far the least matches, usually none. Again women just need to admit they’re as shallow as possible, far more so than men, and only care about looks. Again i don’t blame them, they just need to be honest
Maybe dumb women but for me and my friends if a guy said he just got out of jail that’s a combination of the ick and a jolt of fear. The women you know in your socioeconomic bracket and probably one below would in no way entertain an ex con
So you want all women to be sluts and go with any one?
I never said that. I said I don’t blame women and would behave similarity if I was a woman. Women want the best genes for their kids, same as any animal and that means the tallest strongest best looking man (definitely not me lol). What I want is women to be honest. They should just admit they don’t care about a man’s personality, it causes men a lot of pain to think women are honest when they say that and then get let down over and over
There are women who don’t want children 🤦🏻♂️. Most women on dating apps, just want someone to hang around with - not to immediately bang and have kids so they can have healthy children.