A childhood friend recently moved to the same city as myself. We both have a boyfriend/girlfriend and we hang out a lot, just the two of us, since we're really close. One thing lead to another and we slept together one time. It never really stopped after that. He confessed that we should break off with our significant others and just date but I'm hesitant. On one hand I feel like if we start, he is probably "the one" since we have so much in common and have been close friends for so long. On the other, we kind of started off cheating on our significant other... I know the saying: Once a cheater, always a cheater. Should I just move on or take a dive?
By that logic, you will always be a cheater in every relationship you are in for life, whether with him or not. So it is irrelevant. Why not just follow your heart? That’s what I always do.
I think she means that this only applies to men lol
I think it really depends on the type of relationship he is in. One thing is cheating on a GF of a few months because you aren’t very serious vs a fiance or a wife. The fact that he wants to break his current relationship off is significant.
Take some time off and then ask your heart which way to go. These relationships are based on connection/chemistry and how much you can manage or take crap from other person as even though you both think you are alike and all when you would live with each other for your rest of your life you will realize that small little habits can bother (each other) and you should be willing to adjust manage etc for he/she is.... no one is perfect Listen to your heart ❤️
🎶 It’s gonna tell you what to doooo...
🎶 when he's calling for you...
Take a leap of faith. Go in with full trust.
It doesn’t matter what you do with your friend, but your current boyfriend definitely deserves better. If you stay with him, he will always be the one you settled for (even setting apart the appalling lack of disregard you displayed for him with your cheating). Set him free and let him find someone for whom he is the first choice.
This type of stories never end well
You are a bad person and so is the guy. You both deserve each other. I had a boyfriend once who cheated on me with a friend who also had a ‘serious’ boyfriend. When I found I was shattered. It was the lowest period of my life. Thank god I came out of that toxic relationship. Last I knew they both kept up that secret affair for some time but the girl later went back to her boyfriend and finally married him. Her boyfriend and later husband never found out. She blocked me and everyone else who knew about this on Facebook as she of course was shit scared of her husband finding out. I am sure she still lives on that fear as my ex boyfriend is also her neighbor. Who knows they might still be doing it. I call such people the scum and slime of earth. You are one of them
You know that the heart is very far away from the brain right?
@nsgdbp damn, people dead-ass are cucking each other that hard. I can't imagine anyone is happy in that situation. Life is messy.
You were meant for each other. And you deserve each other.
That sounds sooo familiar. Season eight is coming...