Recently came to know that my daughter may be seeing/attracted to someone(a guy :)) who is 4-5 years elder to her. She is 14-15. What should I do as a parent. Should I even do something? Serious opinion only fellas-
It’s illegal threaten police immediately!
Should you do anything? Some 20 year old is trying to bang your 15 year old daughter, what if he got her pregnant, dudes gotta be a loser.
Well I think I should've been specific. I've already told what I should tell my daughter. My question was if I should specifically take legal action immediately or dealing at the parents' level is OK.
Hmm this dude is a freak, I mean if he had sexual contact with her I would do something. Maybe get the police involved regardless and put a scare in him/ start a paper trail for when he does this again.
Yes, you should definitely intervene. He is definitely a loser if he's an adult hanging out with/dating your 14-15 year old. I'd have a talk with her to understand/get more information without judging... and then try to talk some sense into her after. Also remind him that she is too young, you don't approve, and the law will be the least of his worries if you catch him around her again. Problem solved.
"law would be least of his worries" that's some badass parent statement..I'll use it if need be
Any physical contact with minor is a serious crime. You don't need to make any personal threat. Just inform the police. If you search some news about relationship with minor, you will find they are in jail for years.
Dunno man, back in Europe this would be totally OK. I mean, it's just a few years difference. Might even be legal over there. How does it work in the US? If I'm 18, can I bang a 17 year-old?
Woah crazy stuff here. I'm with Fitbit I'd just ask her to be careful and trust she knows sup ?
Trust a 15 year old girl to not get wrapped up in her feelings and look at this analytically... Please never procreate
My personal advice is to first convince your daughter. If you succeed in this then the rest is easy.
13 year old girls get fucked all the time in US. Even I had sex at that she. You can’t stop it. Just tell your daughter to always do with a condom and not be a teen mom.
this is disgusting. I'm ashamed to share a workplace with you.
I am sure you would have come to US as an immigrant so don’t know this. Just accept this as a reality. What’s the need to get ashamed? Many people here marry the sweet hearty who they fucked since they were teens.
Make her understand that it's not legal and give her every resource to be safe. +1 to @Principal in that if she's convinced (and thus spends less time with him, and stay in public), you should be OK.
Yup. Am totally on it if it gets real!