Dating in Boston
Recently came to Boston/Cambridge area and finding it difficult to find new friends - let alone dating. Wondering whether anyone else has had a similar experience. I am good looking as rated by other girls.
Social sports, girls like company so make friends first
You're asking the worst possible group of people
Dude girls get wet for leetcode
Any better suggestions for right group of people 😘
Yeah, Boston aint your California, people tell you fuck you meaning nice meeting you, and not trying to make new friends as they maintain their school friendship. Now, I don’t know about dating as I’m happily married. I think we started talking to my neighbors after 2 or 3 years. I guess they didn’t trust me before :) But to make friends I would recommend you to start going to meetups of your interests and networking events. There are many Boston newbies there and you can actually make friends.
"By other girls" meaning you are female? Confused, "good looking" is typically a description for men...
I am a male.
- Befriend your coworkers and meet their friends - Meetups, gyms or a sports league are s good bet as well - Try a church or spiritual group if that's your jam - We like fall leaf colors so you'll probably find a good group of hikers either on meetup/Facebook or an internal twitter group Most of us in Cambridge/Boston are pretty friendly but breaking through the external "it's cold, gtfo" shell is the challenge PS: online dating apps or Bumble BFF could also be an option Finally: TC or GTFO fam
Thanks for the advice. Some good points laid out there. I don't like to look at TC as it is all temporary/materialistic stuff.
The TC request is more so that other Blinders can know how much twitter pays in Cambridge 😇 (I'm baised since I considered applying there recently)
Better be quick before the winter hits!
You don’t get it. Winter is when everyone needs some warm.
It's takes a few mths to get into the dating groove in a new city. But you can cheat. OkCupid, coffee&begels, tons of daring apps out there. Find out the most popular one in your city.
Nice to hear some proof for once that this problem isn't exclusive to Seattle
Yes it's a big problem. Finding friends is hard honestly. Weekends suck because of that. Despite being an extrovert it's tough.
winter closing in hard in boston don’t be alone for cuddle szn 🥶
Yes I know it's a hard period. Thus wanting to get advice from Blind. Do you know any of your friends in Boston open to making new friends :P
they’re all at sloan and all married 🥴
“I am good looking” “Dating is difficult” X