Reading online articles about dating Indian men, I see some sad stereotypes. I don't know if dating is hard just because I am Indian, or I look brown, or because these stereotypes exist in every woman's mind. I had one girlfriend in my undergrad in India, 11 years ago, we broke up as college completed. Dating and relationships in India back then were not like the US. I never had a kiss or sex or any kind of physical intimacy in the past. Here I see it is so easy for locals to date and sleep together.
How old are you? And what are your preferences?
I'm 31.5 years old. I would date anyone I can speak with either in English or Hindi (I know these two only). Some Indian girls don't date Indians (see tinder, bumble, and cmb). I don't know what is the dating scope for an Indian in the US.
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Work out, wear clothes that fit well, smell nice(thatâs a big one), be friendly and go do things :) youâll meet lots of awesome people to date.
Get in shape and go for online dating apps. If you are in the Bay Area, the Indian stereotype is stronger and hence, harder to get a date. I donât get many matches in SF but have had encounters with many girls (American/Mexican) in Portland, Denver and Seattle outside of the apps(read âin barsâ).
I am constantly interviewing with tech companies on the east coast. So I get more opportunities to have a life outside of work.
Agreed. The brown guy stereotype in Bay Area is strong. Ive seen my friends having more success in smaller towns on the east coast than SF.
Suit up and be awesome. Rest is easy.
In general, I never saw anyone with a date or girlfriend or spouse, wearing a suit in BA. I also learned from online articles, never take dating and relationship advise from single people.
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Dude itâs easy. Just get fit, dress up, add travel to your life, do some cooking and be a complete package. Not that difficult.
If it's not difficult why is the sex worker industry booming in America, with girls that don't even have highschool education s making more than software engineers? Why are dating apps over 90% male with masses of males buying boosts and premium subscriptions? ???
For married women no sex percentage is decreasing on the other hand increasing for married men. Where are married women going.
What are you looking for?
Dating success.
Good luck getting laid
Step 1. Be attractive. Step 2. Donât be unattractive. Repeat ad nauseum
Unfortunately, the most unattractive male = Brown skin + Indian. I'm still working on whatever I can work on improving myself.
I was just playing, but you shouldnât put yourself down like that man, I know a lot of Indian guys who are considered attractive. Itâs just how you project yourself. Women absolutely hate desperation, if you take your mind off results and focus on having fun, youâll find women are more attracted towards you.
To be honest I have given up on dating, waiting for my parents to find someone. Dating is hard especially if you are introverted and shy on top of being desi.
Same. I have given up on dating too. It's tough. Although I am not shy, so don't feel bad for it.
Hit someone up on blind
Donât be a creep, donât be weird, be funny and interesting, thatâs it. Do you have any hobbies?
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