Dating while Separated
Hi, I’ve been separated from my wife for a year and will divorce her next year. Ladies, would you have a problem dating a guy who is separated but isn’t divorced. What’s your relationship status? Edit: my bad, I *will* divorce her, not *probably*. The divorce proceedings haven’t begun yet but soon will.
TC or GTFO
No, just gtfo.
@UHasHerpes I think you should. I have every right to stay
"Will probably divorce" - wtf. A year and a half and you still don't know?? Why would anybody want to date you in that case? When legal proceedings are in process and you know WTF you are doing seems like a reasonable time to start dating.
The dating while separated isn't the problem. It's the "probably" will divorce. That means you aren't separated and just waiting for the time period to divorce but still in a semi-committed relationship. It wouldn't be fair to the girl or your current wife.
I think I would have a problem if I were looking for a long term relationship. Like, is it a trial separation? Is the wife still wanting to work it out? Are there children involved. If just fun dating I would not have an issue. I am a married female.
The "probably" would be the issue for me, too. I don't need nor want a commitment, but I do prefer a guy who is decisive and forward thinking. Wishywashyness is a turnoff.
Switch and place the lady in your situation who says the same thing to you. Would you date her?
If you just want to shack, get paid service. Why are u looking to date with a “probable” wife still in play.
Edited the question. I will divorce the wife, not probably. It’s just that the divorce proceedings haven’t begun yet.
Sidebar: if your wife is hot are you willing to set me up with? Thanks
No she isn’t hot. She is also bat shit crazy. Would you still like me to set you up with her??
Sure but I'm not that excited anymore :( now I just want to buy her 🍷 and see how bat shit crazy she is. :D
Get a divorce, then we can have this conversation.
Lol
This !!! Guy here, I was in the same situation and most of the girls I went on dates with had this response ... Especially Indian girls ...