I went on a date with this guy last week, and we had a great time. We spent three hours walking around the down and chatting. He walked me to the car, and said that he’d like to hang out again and hugged me. When I got home, he messaged me that it was nice to meet me in person and he does hope to see me again soon and we exchanged numbers (We were talking in an app) He then hasn’t texted me the next two days. He’s a doctor and he did say that he’s on call this long weekend that he has to work day and night. While we could schedule the second date later, i thought he would’ve texted me asking how my long weekend was and stuff. (I know I could also text him first, but that’s not what I am asking!) Guys, do you usually text a girl every day between the first and the second date if you really liked her, or am I thinking too much?
if a guy realli likes a girl, he would have texted no matter how busy he is
Have you texted him and no response, or are you expecting him to initiate all communique?
He texted me the next day of the first date to have fun in the city, but the conversation was short and neither he or I haven’t texted for another two days.
Yeah I wouldn't read too much into that, especially if he mentioned having to work non-stop. That must be brutal.
Some guys enjoy adding a bit of suspense, especially if they read interest. Imagine how bigger of a hormone rush you'll get now as opposed to if you got a text next day. Either that or he was busy banging other chicks...
Tech wlb and doctor wlb are quite different
Yeah, i can only imagine but i can’t also really imagine how busy they are 😂. he did have to take an urgent phone call during the first date because he was on-call.
He doesn’t wanna appear creepy by over communicating. Specially after just one date. I would say, give it time, once he is really into you and you guys know more about one another the comms should go up as well :)
Focus on you. Especially if dating someone with an all-encompassing career like medicine, you have to be busy and content in your own right. If he texts you tomorrow or you never hear from him again, let that have no bearing on you how see yourself. 🔥
I second this
Wow, thanks all for the helpful comment. Thanks a lot all 🙏 good night!
No. No in& between texting. You can tell by your own comments that you are expecting too much out of it. Too much chance that the text convo won't go well, and you will flake on the second date. Also, dating is a disruption to our schedule. Honestly, sometimes you forgot that you went on a date with that person, because it's outside of the normal routine - even if your routine includes things like clubbing.
Doctor + Facebook Engineer = Badass TC
I went out with him once haha 😂
In the Valley, you gotta think long-term ;)